Lady Attends PTA Meeting on Mother's Behalf, Shares Touching Story: "Sweet Experience"
- A Nigerian lady shared a heartfelt video after attending a PTA meeting on behalf of her mother, who recently returned to secondary school
- She captured the atmosphere of the school and reflected on how walking through the halls reminded her of her own school days
- The lady also revealed part of what motivated her mother’s return to school and praised her determination in the viral video
A Nigerian lady has gone viral online after attending a PTA meeting for her mother, who has recently returned to secondary school.
She revealed the class her mother is currently in and shared her unique experience during the meeting.
Source: TikTok
Lady attends meeting on her mother's behalf
The video of the lady, which she posted online, impressed many people as she mentioned her mother’s class and gave a glimpse of her time at the meeting. She also showed the inside of the school, including a special room where certain skills are learned.
According to a post shared on her page @morgana.porsche via a popular social media platform, TikTok, the lady explained that her mother had returned to school and was scheduled for a PTA meeting. As a result, she decided to attend as her guardian.
The lady described her experience walking into the school, saying it made her remember her days as a student.
Speaking in the TikTok video, she said in part:
"A Saturday I did something so random, I attended a PTA meeting but not for my child, but for my mum. My mum is in SS3, her final year in secondary school, and I went as her guardian. I know it sounds crazy already, but let's just say it turned out to be a really sweet experience."
"The moment I stepped into the school, it felt so nostalgic."
"There I was trying to walk into the PTA meeting, acting like a responsible guardian. Everyone else came with their parents, and me, I came representing my mum. Honestly, it was giving big sister energy more than guardian energy."
Source: TikTok
After the conclusion of the meeting, the face of her mother, alongside a few students, was shown in the clip. The lady also explained the reason her mother decided to return to school.
"You could actually tell this was more than a meeting; it was a moment of reflection. Seeing the students, my mum’s classmates—made me really proud of her. She’s not just doing this for herself; she’s showing that it’s never too late to chase your dreams, no matter your age or stage in life."
As the event continued, the guardians who were present were taken around the school to different classrooms and workshops where various skills were acquired.
Speaking about one of these places, the lady added:
"The government really did a great job. Everything looked so neat, organized, and just so much better."
She made several other remarks in the post, and as she shared the video online, many concerned individuals stormed the comment section to share their thoughts and admiration for her mother’s inspiring journey.
Reactions as daughter represent her mother
LIZZIE wrote:
"Tell her not to follow boys, she should focus on her studies."
Sia added:
"My mom went back to uni at the age of 40 …she graduated as the best graduating student and now going for her masters . She is the real example of chase that dream relentlessly."
Efe oghenefejiro added:
"Tell her to remember the mother of whom she is and to make you proud oooo... let her know you got As all through secondary school and nor be two head you get o,if she nor pass no December clothes oo...make the tradition continue abeg."
Deborah Chinasa wrote:
"My mum enrolled sometime ago but kept falling ill,I think the fear was part of the reasons. I think we should get her enrolled again."
Reallifeofa9jamum stressed:
"Awwww! This is the sweetest thing on the internet today super proud of mommy and you for supporting her. Kudos!!!"
Lash tech in Ekpoma noted:
"Awwwn this so nice I wish my mom was alive she would have gone back to school."
Blackbarbie added:
"U can see our mothers would always pick education before men, but most of them are gone and don’t realize they been conditioned to be pined under men, more wins to her."
nazz_iyke shared:
"Alternative High School For Girls… My mum and I started JSS 1 together while I was going to my own school she went here, we both closed and came to back to sell at our shop in the Market. She had leave at JSS 3 cause we were moving to badagry… She still loves her school."
#Lifeofagraduateissweet said:
"Fun fact, my mother was part of the first graduating set that school produced. They were women in their late 40s who got a second chance at education. This was back in 2013."
In an effort to better understand the context, Legit.ng reached out to Ms. Abosede Ogunnika, an educational expert, for comments on the story.
Ms. Abosed,e who also operates an educational and business institute called DRGENIUS ENTERPRISE, answered all questions tabled for her.
In reaction to the story, we asked
"In your experience, what impact does adult education have on personal growth and confidence?"
The educational expert gave a detailed response:
"We have seen different cases of adults going back. Some are going back to continue a Master's or a First degree, but going back to secondary school that goes beyond norms, that's impressive, and whatever the motive may be for that is far beyond pleasing society."
"Adult Education does have an effect on personal growth and confidence."
"You would agree that some drop out due to starting a family, taking care of children, poverty, poor academic performance, and in so doing, miss the opportunity."
She shared some reasons why some elderly individuals might consider returning to school
"1. Adult education helps them to reframe self-worth. Adults who may have struggled in school or were constantly told they are not good at learning often later discover it isn't true. Completing a course or going back to school helps shift the narrative they have believed for a long time; now, they can decide for themselves and not be talked down to."
"2. Adult Education that leads to better job career changes gives them more control over their lives, which is deeply connected to confidence."
"3. It has a great impact of Social interaction with other people within their age range. It boost their confidence and socialisation skills when they can share their thoughts concerning a discussion without feeling left out."
On the question of how how important is it for adults, especially women, to go back to school later in life?
She shared:
"As earlier stated, some women missed out on early education for different reasons."
In an effort to better understand the context, Legit.ng reached out to Ms. Abosede Ogunnika, an educational expert, for comments on the story.
Ms. Abosede, who also operates an educational and business institute called DRGENIUS ENTERPRISE, answered all questions tabled for her.
To begin with, she was asked to share her thoughts on the impact of adult education on personal growth and confidence.
The educational expert gave a detailed response:
"We have seen different cases of adults going back. Some are going back to continue a Master's or a First Degree, but going back to secondary school goes beyond the norms. That's impressive, and whatever the motive may be for that is far beyond pleasing society."
"Adult education does have an effect on personal growth and confidence.
"You would agree that some drop out due to starting a family, taking care of children, poverty, poor academic performance, and, in so doing, miss the opportunity."
She shared some reasons why some elderly individuals might consider returning to school:
"1. Adult education helps them to reframe self-worth.
Adults who may have struggled in school or were constantly told they were not good at learning often later discover it isn’t true. Completing a course or going back to school helps shift the narrative they have believed for a long time; now, they can decide for themselves and not be talked down to."
"2. Adult education that leads to better job or career changes gives them more control over their lives, which is deeply connected to confidence."
"3. It has a great impact on social interaction with other people within their age range. It boosts their confidence and socialisation skills when they can share their thoughts concerning a discussion without feeling left out."
She also spoke on the importance of returning to school later in life, particularly for women.
"As earlier stated, some women missed out on early education for different reasons."
"Unwanted pregnancy, poverty, starting a family, poor academics, lack of family support."
"When a woman faces such a challenge, something would be at stake, such as a DREAM, CAREER, or BUSINESS."
"In a world where there is gender equality, where women take high positions in top places, no job is now secluded for MEN only."
"And the saying that 'what a man can do, a woman can do better' is now a reality. Going back to school is formative and transformational."
She further highlighted some challenges adults usually face when returning to formal education, as well as ways they can be supported.
"Hmmmmm, some of the challenges adults returning to formal education might face include:"
"1. Financial Challenges: One would assume that finance shouldn’t be on this list since they had enough time to make the decision to go to school, save up, and have the support system of children they have lived their lives to train and give the best. They should be able to support the mother’s/father’s desire to go back to school. However, the truth remains that financial projects, school fees, and so on still pose constraints for some whose children are still young or who have to be financially supported by family members."
"2. Technology gaps: Imagine an adult who dropped out of school in the 80s returning to school in an era of Artificial Intelligence. Such an individual would be confused and struggle with learning management systems (LMS, Moodle), online submission platforms, Zoom classes, or basic digital literacy."
"3. Imposter syndrome: Many adults feel they are too old, worry their brains aren't as sharp, or carry negative experiences from earlier education. They may feel out of place among younger students. But with a supportive environment, colleagues, teachers, and accessible bridging programs to refresh study skills, they can excel."
"4. Time constraints and other responsibilities: I remember that during my undergraduate studies, I had a woman who was way older than my colleagues and me in the same department. Truthfully, I must say it wasn't easy for her to combine everything. Sometimes, she would seek my support with assignments, group work, and request constant updates."
"Most adults are juggling work, family care, household management, and ageing parents or taking care of in-laws. Unlike younger students, they can't treat education as their primary focus."
She recommended several ways such adults can be supported:
"1. Flexible scheduling: The teacher/lecturer can make deadlines flexible."
"2. Younger students should not see them as less."
"3. Create peer-to-peer support and dedicated adult learner offices."
"4. Inclusive classrooms."
"5. Training on new technology tools."
"6. Adult-friendly environments."
"7. Family support."
"8. Child care centres: Some adults have younger children they still take care of and bring along while coming to school. They shouldn’t be ridiculed for bringing their child; instead, the school should provide a centre for the care of the children."
She also offered heartfelt advice to adults, especially women, who are thinking of returning to school after many years.
"For some, it started with 'I will do it after my first child is weaned,' then it became 'I will do it after my third child is born,' and eventually it turned into 'I will do it when my children are grown and married."
"Whichever category you fall into, don't wait for permission or the right time."
"My advice to all women considering going back to school is: YOU CAN DO IT, AND DON'T LET ANYTHING STOP YOU THE SECOND TIME."
"But before you proceed, take a quick assessment:"
"1. Know your why. Why do you want to go back to school? Be honest about what you hope to gain. Is it a specific career goal? Personal satisfaction? Financial security? Or something else?"
"Knowing what drives you helps when things get tough. The truth is, it won’t all be easy. If younger students are complaining about poor grades, workload, tuition fees, strikes, or challenges, adult learners might face similar issues."
Answering these questions helps you choose the right program suited for this stage of your life.
"2. Do it better the second time. If you're trying school again, aim to do it better."
"Develop sustainable study habits, you probably can't pull all-nighters like in your youth. Instead, find time early mornings, lunch breaks, or after bedtime. Even 30–60 focused minutes each day adds up. You don't need to study for 2–3 hours straight. Find what works for you."
"When I graduated as the Best Graduating Student in my department in 2023, I was celebrated alongside a 70-year-old man who also graduated with first class."
"If he can do it, you can too."
"3. Have a strong support system plan. Plan out your support system. Find your honest cheerleaders during this new chapter, those who will encourage you and check in on you."
"4. Be prepared for guilt, and know it’s normal. Stay focused and don't be discouraged."
"5. Plan your financial options. Don’t go into this thinking, 'Let’s see how it goes.' You will need to plan for financial means to pay tuition and other expenses. Explore scholarships online and apply for those you qualify for."
"6. Connect with other adult learners. Find your people, whether at your school, in your program, or through online communities. They understand the unique challenges you face and can provide practical advice and emotional support."
"7. Be kind to yourself when it’s hard. There will be moments when you question your decision, when everything feels overwhelming, or when you wonder if you’re too old or not smart enough. These moments are normal and don’t mean you have made a mistake. Reach out for help instead of suffering silently or giving up again."
"8. Lastly, trust in God and commit all your plans to His hands. Man proposes, God disposes."
Abosede Ogunnika, affectionately known as Dr. Genius, is an early-child educator, author, actor, and the founder of the Dr. Genius EduAct Impact Foundation.
In 2015, she earned a Nigerian Certificate in Education in Early Childhood Care and Education from the Federal College of Education in Abeokuta. She graduated as the top student in the 2016/2017 cohort and received multiple academic awards. Driven by her commitment to early childhood education, she went on to the University of Ibadan, where she earned a Bachelor of Education in Early Childhood and Educational Foundations, graduating as the best student in her department and setting a new academic record in 2023.
Abosede is the author of several inspiring books, including Nitty Gritty of Scholarship Hunting, The Longest Wait, Nitty Gritty of Personal CDS, and the children’s storybook Nora Had Her Nos, among many others.
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Lady shares mum’s old school results online
Meanwhile, Legit.ng recently reported that a Nigerian lady caused a stir online after sharing her mother’s old secondary school results. The young woman revealed that her mum had often bragged about being one of the best students back in her school days and always taking the first position in class.
However, when she decided to post her mother’s report cards, things took a humorous turn as the grades and teacher’s comments told a completely different story. The post, which quickly went viral on TikTok.
Source: Legit.ng
