Marcy Wudarski, the woman who knew James Gandolfini before Tony Soprano

Marcy Wudarski, the woman who knew James Gandolfini before Tony Soprano

He was nobody when we met. I was working between jobs, doing work for a movie company, and a friend suggested I help out part-time—just some small tasks—for 'this actor you've never heard of who's done a couple of nothing movies.

These words from Marcy Wudarski, a former film producer, reveal how her relationship with James Gandolfini began before the world knew him as Tony Soprano. Grounded and private, she is the woman who knew him during his early, uncertain years, offering a rare glimpse into the humble beginnings of the television icon.

Marcy Gandolfini at Princess of Wales Theatre and James Gandolfini and Marcy at the Waldorf-Astoria Hotel
Marcy Gandolfini attends "The Drop" premiere (L), and James and Marcy attend the American Museum of the Moving Image Salute to Julia Roberts (R). Photo: Alberto, Ron Galella (modified by author)
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TABLE OF CONTENTS

Key takeaways

  • Marcy Wudarski is known as James Gandolfini's first wife, whose relationship with him came before his breakout role as Tony Soprano.
  • Marcy Wudarski and James Gandolfini met in the late 1990s before tying the knot in 1999.
  • The couple welcomed their son, Michael Gandolfini, before divorcing in 2002.
  • Actor James Gandolfini passed away on 19 June 2013 at the age of 51.

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Profile summary

Full name

Marcy Ann Wudarski

Gender

Female

Date of birth

6 February 1967

Age

58 years old (as of 2025)

Zodiac sign

Aquarius

Place of birth

Hudson, Florida, United States

Current residence

New York, United States

Nationality

American

Ethnicity

Polish-American

Religion

Christianity

Sexuality

Straight

Height in feet

5'8"

Height in centimetres

173

Hair colour

Blonde

Eye colour

Blue

Father

Edward B. Wudarski

Mother

Mary Ann Wudorski

Marital status

Divorced

Ex-husband

James Gandolfini

Children

1

High School

Bayonet Point Junior High School

Profession

Former film producer

Marcy Wudarski's biography

The film producer was born on 6 February 1967 in Hudson, Florida, United States. She is the daughter of Mary Ann Wudarski and Edward B. Wudarski, a former U.S. Army lieutenant who later worked as a comptroller for the Department of the Army.

Her father passed away on 23 March 1986, and her mother died on 19 October 1998. Marcy attended Bayonet Point Junior High School in Florida.

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Facts about Marcy Wudarski
Top 5 facts about Marcy Wudarski. Photo: Gregory Pace/Getty Images (modified by author)
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Why is Marcy Wudarski famous?

Marcy Wudarski gained public attention following her marriage to actor James Gandolfini. Though she is not widely known for her work in film, her IMDb profile credits her as an executive producer on the 2013 film Wish You Were Here. In 1995, Marcy worked briefly as Gandolfini’s personal secretary.

How did James Gandolfini meet his ex-wife?

Marcy Wudarski met American actor James Gandolfini in 1995 while serving as his personal secretary during the early stages of his career. Over time, they grew close while she worked part-time for him, and eventually, they began a romantic relationship.

Marcy later moved into his West Village apartment, and the couple married in March 1999 in a small, private ceremony. At the time, Wudarski was already pregnant with their son, Michael, who was born on 10 May 1999.

James Gandolfini and Marcy Gandolfini at the Beverly Hilton
James Gandolfini and Marcy Gandolfini arrive at the Golden Globe Awards. Photo: SGranitz (modified by author)
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Their marriage, however, was short-lived, as they divorced in 2002. Marcy claimed that James was struggling with substance abuse at the time.

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After the divorce, Gandolfini married Deborah Lin, a former model and actress. He passed away on 19 June 2013, at the age of 51, while vacationing in Rome with his son. The actor suffered a heart attack and was pronounced dead at Policlinico Umberto I Hospital.

Marcy's son, Michael, followed in his father's footsteps and became an actor. He is known for his roles in several films and TV series, including Daredevil: Born Again, Beau Is Afraid, The Independent, and Cherry.

Marcy Wudarski and Michael Gandolfini at the Hammer Museum
Marcy Wudarski and her son, Michael Gandolfini, attend the red-carpet premiere of the Apple Original Series "Extrapolations". Photo: Michael Tullberg
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FAQs

  1. Who is James Gandolfini's first wife? The actor's first wife is Marcy Ann Wudarski.
  2. How old is Marcy Wudarski? Marcy is 58 years old as of 2025. She was born on 6 February 1967.
  3. What is Marcy Wudarski's ethnicity? She is reportedly of Polish-American descent.
  4. Who are Marcy Wudarski's parents? Her parents are Mary Ann Wudarski and Edward B. Wudarski.
  5. Did James Gandolfini have a daughter? The actor had a daughter, Liliana Ruth Gandolfini, with his second wife, Deborah Lin, a former American model and actress.
  6. Who is the mother of Michael Gandolfini? Michael's mother is Marcy Wudarski.
  7. When did Marcy Wudarski and James Gandolfini divorce? They divorced in 2002, three years after marrying in 1999.

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Marcy Wudarski, a former film producer, gained public attention following her marriage to actor James Gandolfini. The couple married in 1999 and divorced in 2002, and they share a son. Actor James passed away in June 2013.

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Isaac Wangethi (Lifestyle writer) Isaac Wangethi has been a content writer at Legit since September 2021. He has gained valuable experience working on various projects, such as celebrity biographies, lifestyle, news and many more. Isaac won the Writer of the Year Award on Legit in 2023. He earned a Bsc. of Science in Information Technology in 2017 from the University of Nairobi and a Higher Diploma in Computer Software Engineering from Gretsa University in 2021. In 2023, Isaac finished the AFP course on Digital Investigation Techniques. In March 2024, he completed the Google News Initiative course. Email: Wangethin@gmail.com

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