"It’s Just to Help": Nigerian Man Refuses to Kneel for Girlfriend During Proposal, Later Gives In

"It’s Just to Help": Nigerian Man Refuses to Kneel for Girlfriend During Proposal, Later Gives In

  • A Nigerian man refused to kneel for his girlfriend during a marriage proposal, insisting he was not begging her, but later bowed to pressure
  • The man, said to be from Benin, argued strongly against kneeling and told the people around him that it was not necessary
  • After several moments of back and forth and mockery from those present, he eventually surprised everyone by kneeling to propose

A Nigerian man who initially refused to kneel down for his girlfriend during a marriage proposal eventually succumbed to pressure and went on his knees to propose.

He explained why he did it in the video after the proposal, and the lady accepted the ring from him.

Man who refused to kneel during proposal later bows to pressure
Man causes stir after refusing to kneel for girlfriend, later changes mind Photo source: Tiktok@keborevents
Source: TikTok

The man was later challenged by a woman in the video, suspected to be his girlfriend, after his earlier refusal to kneel.

At first, he stated that he wouldn’t kneel down for his girlfriend, stressing that he was not begging her at all.

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After several back and forth moments, he eventually knelt before her as they proceeded with the proposal.

This was captured in a video shared on the page, @keborevents, via the popular social media platform TikTok.

The clip began with the man telling his girlfriend and others present that he wouldn’t kneel down. He insisted he would not do it, but hours later, he was seen on his knees proposing.

Man who insisted he wouldn’t kneel ends up doing so at proposal
Man who claimed kneeling was unnecessary later kneels for girlfriend Photo source: Tiktok@keborevents
Source: TikTok

Man who refused to kneel for girlfriend at proposal eventually gives in

While he was mocked during the act by those present who felt he was only trying to maintain the standard of a Benin man he eventually gave in.

Speaking about his stance against kneeling, he told the people present, including his girlfriend:

“I no dey kneel down, my leg no dey touch ground. I dey beg am?”

However, after the whole proposal and his eventual kneeling, he was confronted by a lady who asked him why he went against his words.

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She challenged him:

“You say Benin man no dey kneel down.”

His response was immediate. He explained why he finally went on his knees and questioned the importance of the act.

He added:

“It’s just to help, to help other Benin men. All these things are not important. You no go go heaven with all these things.”

Not long after, the video made its way online, and concerned individuals stormed the comment section to share their thoughts.

Reactions as man who vowed to remain standing at proposal eventually kneels

Mavenkizz said:

"You beg Abi u nor beg las las.'

Mummykells stressed:

"You nor knee down na photo shop."

Omma💕| The Network Marketer said:

"The fact that I had thought you were serious initially."

sharonblac noted:

'Benin men and pride."

bright aigbedion added:

"Na for media…benin men nor Dey go down.'

君Ark1n死 stated:

"there's a current video related to this, but the guy did not kneel and the woman called it off."

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MARIAM IDRIS-ALIYU wrote:

"Shame catch am he shock sef.'

Nomzy said:

"Believe him at your own risk."

cutejay69 wrote:

"Congratulations Mike my friend so happy for you."

EventsByDinChi noted:

"Big congratulations sir 💐wish & hopeto be part of your beautiful day."

Ophori Kharis Mamus added:

"You kneel down Abi you nr kneel downnnnnn????'

Edmund said

"U want do surprise proposal u nor want kneel down. as how tell us. wetin u go wear for night when she dey sleep. u dey here dey form romantic."

Man’s Standing Proposal to Girlfriend Stirs Mixed Reactions Online

Meanwhile, Legit.ng gathered that a viral video of a Nigerian man’s proposal to his partner has divided opinions online.

Instead of the widely recognised practice of kneeling, the man stayed on his feet while asking for her hand in marriage.

Source: Legit.ng

Authors:
Muhammed Hammed Olayinka avatar

Muhammed Hammed Olayinka (Human Interest Editor) Muhammed is a journalist with over six years of experience in Nigerian digital media. He began as Editor at Oracle, UNILORIN (2017–2019), then worked with Opera News Hub (2019–2021), Scopper News (2022–2023), and Gistreel (2023–2025). He won the NAPSS President Writing Skirmish in 2017 and was first runner-up in the UNILORIN Senate Writing Contest in 2018. Muhammed now works with LEGIT.ng, where he tells engaging and impactful stories for readers. He can be reached via email at muhammed.hammedolayinka@corp.legit.ng