Woman Shares Personal Opinion, Explains Why Aboy Chibuzor’s Wife Married Him: "I Am 100% Sure"
- A young Nigerian woman has shared her personal thoughts on the marriage between Apostle Chibuzor's son and a lady
- She mentioned that she is very sure the lady did not marry Aboy Chibuzor because of money, and gave examples of reasons
- She explained at the end of her post why the mother of 3 might have married Aboy Chibuzor despite his autistic condition
A Nigerian woman has shared her opinion on the marriage between Aboy Chibuzor, the adopted child of Apostle Chibuzor Gift Chinyere, who got married to a mother of three, and mentioned a reason why she married him.
Apostle Chibuzor had taken to his social media page to announce that his son got married to the woman on 29 March 2026.
Source: Facebook
Woman speaks about ABoy Chibuzor, his wife
While several people celebrated the news, a few shared their opinions and pointed out different things.
As reactions continue to pour in, a young lady, Ijeoma Chinonyerem, shared her opinion about the wife of Aboy Chibuzor, Mrs. Blessing Chibuzor.
While there have been rumors that she married him for a different purpose, the young lady explained that she is very sure Blessing didn't marry Aboy Chibuzor because of financial gain.
She wrote:
"After decentering men, Nigerian women need to decenter religion. I see a lot of posts about the lady who married Aboy, with people saying she did it because of money."
After she explained that she was sure Blessing didn't enter into a marriage with the autistic man for money, she shared some reasons to back her claims.
Her reason is that she believes Ms. Blessing is not poverty-stricken.
She shared:
"I am 100% sure it is not because of money. The way that woman looks, the way she speaks, everything about her shows she is not poverty-stricken."
"That woman is a mother of three grown children. She is educated, and while she may not be rich, she seems quite comfortable."
"Look at her complexion, her hair, her glasses, the hairstyle she wore on her wedding day, everything."
"Odi gi k'onye ubiam? She may not be richy-richy, but she is comfortable."
Source: Facebook
Finally, the woman mentioned a reason she believes led Ms. Blessing to marry Aboy Chibuzor.
Ijeoma Chinonyerem wrote on Facebook:
"She also said men have been coming to marry her since she became a widow, but she refused. So it is clearly not because of a lack of men."
"Why did she do it?"
"She did this because of religion."
"If you watched the wedding video, you would see where she said the Holy Spirit asked her to go and marry the young boy, and that it is a sacrifice, like Jesus Christ sacrificed for the church."
Her statement got the attention of many people who took to the comments section to share their thoughts.
Reactions as lady speaks about Blessing Chibuzor
Adaeze Prisca stressed:
"Once you decenter Religion and Men as a woman, just know you have been delivered from the shackles of patriarchy and patrichial princess."
Ledea Ntakiri shared:
"Seriously. If they decenter religion, decentering men becomes easier but well, people love their shackles."
Patience Peters Uche wrote:
"That was how Rev. Christie said God told her to stay when her husband was cheating. She was busy gathering and training kids from the different women her husband got pregnant. Now, she said she left because God told her to leave. Hahaha... God never told you to stay or leave. God has given you wisdom already. If you choose to die , you did yourself not God."
Ebubechi Nnaji added:
"The hold religion has on women. It's really surprising to see especially when it does not even favour us all the time."
Petra Ebere Kris said:
"Nna eh! I just de shocked. Na so my mouth open waa since I saw this picture. Comrade amazed me sotey I come de wonder if she was so segz starved that the thought of uncontrolled nlagbu with someone who has constant sounded enticing to her. It doesn't make sense to me. She even looks like his mother. Well, good luck to them. But wait first, she go born for am?"
On the story of Apostle Chibuzor Gift Chinyere, who married his son to a single mother of three, a marriage which drew the attention of a lady who shared her thoughts on the marriage, Legit.ng contacted a relationship counselor and marriage therapist.
Mr. Godwin Ogwuche of GoRu Academy explained in detail the implications of marrying someone with autism.
He explained:
"From a psychological point of view, marrying someone with autism requires deep understanding, patience, and long-term emotional commitment."
"Autism is a spectrum, and in this case, the man is described as someone who needs daily support and assistance with basic activities. That means the marriage may not function like a typical romantic relationship."
"Emotionally, the partner may have to take on roles beyond being a spouse; sometimes acting as a caregiver, support system, and emotional anchor. This can lead to:"
"Emotional stress or burnout if not properly supported."
"Communication challenges, especially if the person is non-verbal or has limited expression."
"Loneliness, if emotional connection is not mutual in the usual way."
"But also fulfillment, if the partner genuinely understands the responsibility and is committed."
"The key issue here is informed consent and preparedness. The woman must fully understand what she is entering into, not just emotionally, but practically. Without that understanding, it can lead to frustration, regret, or emotional strain in the future."
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In a similar story, Legit.ng reported that a Nigerian lawyer claimed the marriage of Apostle Chibuzor Gift Chinyere’s son to a single mother is legally invalid. The lawyer, in a viral video, gave two main reasons. First, he said that a church ceremony alone does not make a marriage valid unless it is conducted in a licensed place of worship.
Nigerian lady questions Apostle Chibuzor
Meanwhile, Legit.ng recently reported that a Nigerian lady spoke out on social media about Apostle Chibuzor Gift Chinyere allegedly offering money and other benefits to a woman to marry his adopted autistic son, Aboy.
The lady questioned why the pastor arranged the marriage instead of focusing on other ways to support Aboy.
Source: Legit.ng
