Man Denies Partner on Stage Just to Kiss Tems at Concert in Brazil: “Not My Wife”
- A viral video has shown a man allegedly denying his wife to get serenaded by Tems on stage
- In the footage, Tems refused, saying she wanted to respect the woman standing behind him
- The moment has renewed debate about concert intimacy and relationship boundaries
A surprising moment at the Afro Punk Festival in Brazil has set social media buzzing after a male fan reportedly denied his wife on stage in an attempt to get Nigerian singer Tems to serenade him.
The now-viral clip showed Tems interacting with the man during her performance when she paused and gently said:
“I know your wife is here and I need to respect her.”

Read also
"Ned Nwoko has gone through a lot": Man defends Regina Daniels' husband, gives strong points

Source: Instagram
The camera then pans to a woman believed to be his wife standing just steps behind him.
Rather than acknowledge his partner, the man shook his head and denied being married, despite the woman’s visible reaction.
The singer, visibly taken aback, tried to diffuse the moment, but the man leaned in and kissed her hand while smiling proudly. The crowd screamed.
The wife, on the other hand, remained silent.
The 10-second moment has since become a hot topic across social platforms worldwide, sparking intense debate about loyalty, public embarrassment, and musician-fan boundaries.
Legit.ng recalled that Tems was recently spotted hurrying through a walkway, where a group of fans waited to greet her behind a barricade.
She noticed one of them, a male fan who requested an autograph on her photo card. The Crazy Things hitmaker paused and attempted to use his pen, which had ceased working at that time.

Read also
"I don't want to go back to Nigeria": Lady breaks down in tears as husband removes her from his visa
Tems, in her thoughtfulness, kissed the work of art with her red painted lips, which made the young man very happy.
Watch the video here:
Fans react to the video with Tems
Legit.ng compiled the reactions of social media users below
@giddysinclair:
"What man goes to a show and is this infatuated with a woman when he is married? I guess some do. But once I don cross that bridge, no matter how you fine. I no go send you."
@Herbdulfatah247:
"He didn't deny his wife, actually his wife gave the go ahead and she's beside him Tems even wanted to leave his place when he said his wife was present but the wife said she can go ahead"
@jhonuh008:
"That’s not his wife He doesn’t love that woman, she probably knows.. more like he was desperate to hurt her, could it be some sort of revenge or something?.. they better split up, cos that is action has no understanding."
@nwodoh_henry
"Nigerian women are never beating that allegation. They can leave Nigeria but that “hei” never leaves them."

Read also
Indian lady discloses what happens to her suitors after she rejects their proposal, people react
@OtitiV11904:
"Heii Tems is the kind of woman that will definitely tell her mommy everything that happened"

Source: Instagram
Adult film maker shares fantasy with Tems
Legit.ng earlier reported that controversial American adult content creator, King Nasir, has opened up about his deep admiration for Nigerian singer and Grammy Award winner, Tems.
In a recent interview with Nigerian content creator Egungun, Nasir, who is currently in Nigeria, described the artist as his 'female Nigerian crush'.
He added that he wouldn’t hesitate to spend time with the singer if given the chance, remarking, “My female crush is Tems. Film or not filming, whatever she wants to do, I’m down."
Source: Legit.ng