Bride Cancels Wedding 3 Weeks to Ceremony over Husband-to-be’s Unexpected Action: “Saw The Signs”
- A bride cancelled her wedding just three weeks before the ceremony after booking a wedding gown and making other payments
- The bride opened up about the groom’s unexpected action, which led to her decision to end the relationship
- Many who came across the post shared what they observed about the husband-to-be's behaviour
A Nigerian bride cancelled her wedding three weeks before the date of the ceremony.
She mentioned the groom's unexpected behaviour as her reason for ending the relationship and listed out what he did.
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A wedding gown vendor on Facebook, Osuchukwu Jane Ezeakolam, narrated the story, stating that it happened to her client.
The post by the bride's vendor read:
"I Refunded A Bride that Cancelled her wedding 3 Weeks to her wedding. This my bride came booked her wedding gown .. made her payment and the date was already fixed.. I wrote down the date .. cos we don’t book wedding gowns without accurate wedding date .. 👌
"But she said at time goes on … the husband to be refused to do the necessary things .. He left everything for her to Carter .. at a point she has already paid part payment to the decoration woman .. part payment to cake, part payment for hall …
"The man refused to pay a dime for anything .. when the list for drinks and food came out .. the man told the lady to pay too .. hmm.
"That was why she had to open up to her family to tell them what was happening.. He was supposed to come see the family of the lady but no .. nothing nothing .. it’s almost 3 weeks to the wedding date .. He has not come to see her family."
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In a chat with Legit.ng, a marital coach, Debby Airebanmen-Jegede, stated that the lady did well by calling off the wedding.
She said:
"Better late than never. She did the right thing by calling off the wedding ceremony because from all indications, the guy wasn't responsible. Truthfully, she must have seen this sign long ago but chose to ignore it, thinking that "he will change."
"I salute her courage to walk away just 3 weeks to the occasion. Many ladies would have gullibly followed through with it, all in the name of "saving face."
Reactions as bride calls off wedding
Princess Geny said:
Once you see red flags run whatever you see in relationships only amplify in marriage I keep saying this, the signs that the man wasn't interested was there but she was blinded by one thing or the other !
Princess Oluwatimilehin Olajide said:
He obviously didn't love her and the lady didn't stand her ground too... A man who loves you will go out of his way to make you happy, and he would definitely not watch you cry
Agbor Pauline said:
The lady saw the signs from the beginning but she ignores it, some of them are just desperate to marry, any man who truly loves a woman won't allow her to stress herself doing everything by herself, what that guy wanted was just to drain her and run away.
Nigerian ladies share their relationship experiences
Meanwhile, Legit.ng previously reported that a Nigerian lady fumed after a man asked her to send him N3,000 two days into their talking stage.
She shared a screen record of the man’s voice note as he shared the reason for asking for such an amount.
Another Nigerian lady got engaged to her lover six months after she experienced heartbreak and gave up on falling in love.
In a related story, a single mother showed off three engagement rings from her past relationships and shared the story behind each of them.
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