"Manipulation 101": Nigerian Lady Cries Out as Lover Gets Another Woman Pregnant, Shifts Blame
- A heartbroken lady cried out online after discovering her boyfriend impregnated his side chick, only to turn around and blame her
- She accused her lover of manipulation after he claimed it was her fault he got another woman pregnant, narrating how he twisted the truth to shame her
- In a viral rant, she revealed the other woman was bringing him food while he built his business, until one day he slept with her and she became pregnant
A Nigerian woman cried out after discovering that her boyfriend got another woman pregnant, saying he even blamed her for it. She shared the full story in a social media post.
According to her, she was making the revelation to make herself feel better, and thousands of individuals reacted to the painful experience.
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Lady vows to disgrace cheating partner publicly
She explained that despite what he did, he turned around and blamed her for it. She accused him of manipulating her with lies and called him out publicly.
According to the post she shared on TikTok via her handle @alexisontiktok_1, the Nigerian woman declared that she would be exposing him and might even mention his name, regardless of how that made him feel.
Speaking about the incident, she wrote:
"I found out that the man I was dating got somebody else pregnant, and his response to me is, 'Can’t you see that you caused it?
"I’ve been begging you to get pregnant for me so I can come and see your parents.' Somebody said that to me. Manipulation is not gender-based. I’ll be sharing tips on (Manipulation 101) that you should look out for."
She went on to accuse him of manipulation as she detailed her ordeal, adding:
"You know the saying, 'Never say never'? It was me. I swam in it. I’ll be reliving all the moments. I might even be calling his name."
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Lady drags boyfriend who impregnated side chick
In another post, she revealed that the woman he impregnated was someone who frequently brought him food while he was building one of his businesses. On one of those days, he had an affair with her, which eventually led to the pregnancy.
Speaking further after confronting him, she revealed:
"I found out the man I was dating got somebody else pregnant, and when I confronted him, he said it was my fault because he had been begging me to get pregnant and I did not.
"When I asked him how it happened because I did not even know there was another woman in the picture he said that when he was building his fuel station, somebody would always send her to bring food for him. Then, one of those days, it happened, and he claimed it was a one-off."
Her story has since gone viral, attracting the attention of many individuals who flooded the comment section of her post to share their thoughts.
Reactions as lady drags cheating boyfriend
Gracie.thevibe said:
"The sooner yall start dating with the mindset that men will fumble u…. The easier your life will be."
rociovette added:
"He got married to someone else and I confronted him he said he wanted to prove to me that he can get married."
chioma_ada2 added:
"this is me 2023 neither has he married the girl till date."
baybee__amara shared:
"Are you still dating it, and hope you’re good?"
Jessy stated:
"That's what my man is telling me right now but u can't blame them with what is going on in this world now every need to be sure am given it a thought ooo."
@toksfashionline mentioned:
"Those of you asking her if she’s still dating him,yes she’s still dating dating him according to her replies to some comment I saw....leave her alone,pick me women will learn in the hardest way."
interiorbykaremood stated:
"Getting pregnant is a trap to become a single mother and the one that get pregnant for him did not win because if he can double date and asking you to get pregnant while lying to her as well he doesn’t love anyone but himself when only need the child not marriage."
NSUKKA LASHTECH/PRESSONNAILS🩷 stressed:
"I experienced manipulation first hand, is his name by any means Patrick?"
Egoo foreign artistry stated:
"A guy told me his friend slept with his wife’s sister and I asked him what he thought about it and he said that it’s the wife’s fault that if she wasn’t so busy with work that his friend wouldn’t have slept with the sister of his wife. I just knew that he wasn’t the love of my life."
Speaking with Legit.ng, she recalled the difficult emotions she felt when her partner turned the blame on her during their disagreement.
She explained that it was not just about the moment itself, but how it tied into a pattern she had already noticed in the relationship:
"Ehm, I felt hurt. At this point, it felt like the height of manipulation. There had already been other forms of manipulation that he had exhibited, but when that response came, I just felt this was the peak of it. I felt really hurt, I felt sad, and a part of me just felt like this was done with. So yeah."
Looking back on the relationship, she admitted that there were signs she should not have ignored, even though she overlooked them at the time:
"Yep, and I take full responsibility for that. The thing is, he made mention that he wanted me to get pregnant, and I told him no, I wanted us to see my parents first, pay the bride price, then we can do what my people do before pregnancy. Looking back now, if somebody else brings that up in a relationship, that’s a red flag not to continue, right?"
"So yes, I overlooked the fact that in the relationship, he was looking for a child while I was looking for companionship or building a bond with somebody. I overlooked that, and I learned my lesson the hard way. He actually told me from the second or third date, 'I really want you to get pregnant.' I thought it was a joke, because you can’t just tell somebody you just met on the third date that you want her to get pregnant. But I see now it was a serious sign."
When the conversation turned to that particular statement about pregnancy, she noted that it has remained with her till today, she said:
"Yeah, it has really stayed with me. I’ve even met a number of people who shared the same pain with me."
Having gone through these experiences, she shared what she believes others should take away if they ever find themselves in a similar situation:
"Ehm, what I would say is choose yourself. Because for you to be dating somebody who puts you in a place where you feel betrayed and manipulated, it means there was a conscious effort on their end to selfishly pick themselves first;regardless of how that decision made you feel. They knew it would hurt you, but they still chose themselves."
"So my advice is: love yourself and always choose yourself. When I made the post, people told me, ‘Just pretend, stay with him, maybe he’ll change.’ But that wouldn’t be me choosing myself. I thought ahead: in the next few months, would I be happy I stayed? The answer was no. So I decided to choose myself."
"Choosing yourself comes in different ways. For me now, I’m keeping myself busy and doing things that are productive, not that I wasn’t doing that before, but I’m more focused now. Just choose yourself and be happy. That’s all I have to say. Just choose yourself. I hope that makes sense."
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Man dumps girlfriend for pregnant side chick
Meanwhile, Legit.ng reported that a man dumped his girlfriend to care for his pregnant side chick, only to later discover the baby was not his.
The man, who blocked his girlfriend and spent heavily on the side chick, made the shocking discovery after committing fully to the relationship.
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