Lady Posts Unexpected Message She Received From Man Who Broke Up With Her After 3 Years of Dating
- A Nigerian lady posted the unexpected message she got from her boyfriend of three years after he ended the relationship
- He texted her the reason why he ended the relationship, and she posted the screenshots online, sparking reactions
- Many who came across the man's WhatsApp messages were taken aback by what he said, while some supported him
A Nigerian lady posted the unexpected message she received from her man after their relationship crashed.
The man shared why he broke up with her in the screenshots of his chats, which she posted.
Source: TikTok
In a TikTok post by @annysscents on TikTok, the lady posted the chats where the man told her that he couldn’t be with one lady.
He said in the chats:
“I can’t be with only you. I have never been with one girl all my life. Even when I get married I will still have a side chick. And that's not what you want. Only a girl that's ready to take me for who I am is who I will be with now going forward.
“So let's just end this and forget about it. I hope this gives you closure. Move on.”
See the chats below:
Source: TikTok
She captioned the post:
“Man of the year indeed.”
The lady added in the comments:
“I feel like tagging the girls we shared it with for 3 years.”
See the TikTok post below:
In a chat with Legit.ng, a marital counsellor, Esther Usetim, shared her thoughts on the man's choice of polygamy.
She said:
"A man who says he can’t be with one woman is simply not ready for commitment, no matter how nice he explains it. That statement usually means he wants the benefits of a relationship without the discipline it requires. Commitment demands sacrifice, and anyone who resists that is choosing freedom over responsibility.
"For the woman, tolerating such a situation would only mean constant anxiety, comparison, and emotional exhaustion. You cannot train a man into monogamy if it is not his decision. Boundaries are not ultimatums, they are self-respect. Walking away early is wiser than staying and hoping he will change.
"People don’t change because of love, they change because of conviction. If his conviction is not alignment with one partner, then no amount of patience will fix it. Let him live his truth, and let her protect hers. Peace is better than potential."
Reactions trail message lady received from ex-lover
@favour said:
"I get this man Omo nah me go happy pass because I would accept him just the way he is but Omo him self has to accept me the way I am ohhh I no fit shout we both go just the accept each other the way we are. make him no reach now him go begin the call me wicked and heartless person ohhh."
@Osteen said:
"Truth be told. We owe no girl loyalty! A society that says a broke man doesn't deserve love has no right to tell a rich man to stay loyal to one woman ! If money determines love, loyalty should be optional to a rich a man ..... peace."
@Akp PEterz said:
"He’s the best man out there for you , if he gives you peace take care of you , no abuses or domestic violence Omo be with him , what guarantee do you have that the next one won’t have multiple women as well lol , this is a very difficult pill to swallow but it’s a man’s world."
@Ella._louis said:
"This is not honesty, this is a man that's tired. Some people don't break up straight up they come up with impossible things like this so you will be the one to give up."
@adaigboglobal
"Men and women are naturally polygamous. I don’t advise sticking to just one partner--it goes both ways. I don’t understand why humans want to personalise or own another human being. That’s selfish. Nature didn’t make us that way. Let everyone do what makes them happy, abeg. I’m not a supporter of one-partner relationships, biko."
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US-based lady posts message from Nigerian uncle
Meanwhile, Legit.ng previously reported that a US-based lady asked her uncle to sponsor her trip to Nigeria after telling him that she had seen an affordable ticket.
She posted her uncle's reaction on social media, as he gave her a response that she was not expecting while reminding her of the past.
The screenshot of the messages caught people’s attention as some agreed with the uncle while others sided the lady.
Proofreading by James Ojo, copy editor at Legit.ng.
Source: Legit.ng
