"What Should I Do?" Lady Laments, Shows Her Boyfriend of 8 Years' Reply When She Mentioned Marriage
- A Nigerian lady has expressed her disappointment with her boyfriend on social media over his replies when she brought up the marriage topic
- The lady said they have been dating for eight years, and she thought it was time they considered getting married
- While some people saw reasons for her boyfriend's responses, others made light of the lady's situation
A lady, @bigforceeee, has turned to netizens for advice over her boyfriend's disappointing replies when she mentioned marriage to him.
She shared her WhatsApp conversation with her boyfriend on TikTok and disclosed that they have been dating for eight years.
Source: TikTok
Lady's painful chat with boyfriend
"Omo 😭💔 …pls I need an opinion on this guysss what should I do?" she lamented.
In the chats, her boyfriend stated that they were not ready for marriage. He pointed out that she was not doing well for herself either.
This infuriated the lady, and she replied him that she had been catering for them for the past two years.
He slammed her for mentioning how she had been shouldering their responsibilities, adding that he had not forced her to do so.
"Oya go and announce to everybody that you are the one taking care of me,
"Don't I use to take care of you before all this happened to me??
"Why do you have to always bring all this up?
"Was there anytime I forced you to provide anything for me?
"Did I force you to stay with me?" he countered her.
Source: TikTok
Read their chats below:
Lady's chat with boyfriend triggers reactions
Legit.ng has compiled some reactions to the lady's post below:
Doveedah♊️ said:
"Joro to Joro. Those messages were written by the same person. Your writing patterns gave you out😁😁😁😁How did I know? I’m a literature student."
Adeyems said:
"You’ve been catering for a man for over 2years and you still want to go ahead? I’m sure that if he is ready for marriage, you can even pay your bride price yourself as I dey look am."
ihenko Onwuzuo jnr said:
"Bro has a concrete reason. never go into marriage cashless, i no fit try am if the girl like mek e go find another man."
🌺_Te_qulia_🧸 said:
"Sister, Don’t leave him now oooh, focus on yourself and what brings you money now you are going to get a new boyfriend, but you’ll still be in that relationship."
_porschemelo_❤️😌 said:
"Did I force you to stay with me 😭😭😭omo cramps go first hold me oooo answer."
suzy❤️💓 said:
"His point is valid but the last statement is bad."
In a related story, Legit.ng reported that a lady had rejected a man who proposed marriage to her two days after they met.
Lady marries man she rejected years ago
Meanwhile, Legit.ng previously reported that a lady had married a man she had turned down seven years ago.
She explained that he had transformed greatly over the years and completely changed her perception of him. The lady shared a video from her traditional marriage ceremony, where she danced with abandon in the presence of guests.
As she shared the video, she recounted how her husband-to-be had spent the years working on himself after she initially rejected his proposal.
Proofreading by James Ojo, copy editor at Legit.ng.
Source: Legit.ng
