After 3 Years of Marrying Her Best Friend, Lady Displays Messages She Received from Ex-Boyfriend

• A Nigerian lady has elicited mixed reactions online after showing netizens the messages she got from her former boyfriend
• According to the lady, her former boyfriend got married to her best friend three years ago and chatted her up all of a sudden
• In the course of their chat, the man confessed something heartbreaking he had discovered about his wife

A lady, @chi_omarhh, has made public her WhatsApp chat with her former boyfriend, who married her best friend named Bright three years ago.

The lady, still displeased about how things panned out between them, was unwelcoming to her ex, Dotun, who tried to meet up with her to no avail.

"I won't pass my boundaries if you give me this opportunity," her ex-boyfriend pleaded, as seen in one of the messages.

The lady refused, causing him to open up about his finding about his wife. He found out that the child his wife delivered doesn't belong to him.

"The child Bright gave birth to isn't mine," he broke the news to her.

Unmoved, the lady maintained her decision not to meet up with him and turned down his request to reconcile and allow him back into her life.

The chat the lady posted on TikTok got people talking.

Read their chats below:

Netizens react to message from lady's ex-boyfriend

OliveBlack 🪼🧌 said:

"So assuming the child was his, he won’t remember he loved you according to his message 😂😂anyways it’s your choice tho."

Okikiola❤️ said:

"Even with the fact that my own keep asking me to forgive him and will still go out to say sh.it about me anyway story time is coming soon sha."

Gracey🥺❤️‍🩹 said:

"You for still collect that flight money first😂 collect the double and keep collecting, na him go block you by himself."

Shasha said:

"They always come back. Waited for this guy for 4years only for him to marry another 💔 and left everything in the hands of God. They got divorced with."

Ama said:

"You don fall my hand you for first collect that flight money all that talk no matter."

nobodysfavourite02 said:

"Omo 🥺🥺🥺 I am just imagining how you were feeling that period it happened….your boyfriend and your friend."

Ms oma ✨ said:

"You first made a mistake by not collecting that flight money chaiii e pain me o."

Amber said:

"So all these things wey Dey happen for Nollywood Dey happen for real life too."

Enny said:

"It's the my mum wants to see you too, wetin kan concern her Olololo. Where was your mum 3years ago."

How my ex met my best friend

In a follow-up TikTok video, the lady gave a background story on what happened before her friend married her lover.

She said her only crime was taking the friend to her boyfriend's birthday party. The lady added that they both went home together and left her at the party.

The lady in another clip rejoiced after her friend and her ex's relationship hit a rough patch. She danced and said that she was happy they did not escape karma, adding that people had cheated her many times in the past

In a related story, Legit.ng reported that a lady had received an embarrassing response after begging her ex-boyfriend for money.

Therapist advises separation after paternity shock

Meanwhile, in response to the man's discovery that the child is not biologically his, relationship consultant and marriage therapist Benard Andrew said, "The first step to really take is for both of them to separate."

"Trust is broken. The trust that took years to build. It cannot be rebuilt with an apology," he told Legit.ng.

He explained that separation allows space to process betrayal and evaluate the entire relationship. Andrew further urged individuals in such situations to seek professional help,

Lady receives messages from her toxic ex-boyfriend

Meanwhile, Legit.ng previously reported that a lady had posted the sad message she received from her toxic former boyfriend.

In the message, the lady's ex-boyfriend bodyshamed and referred to her as shameless. The man wondered if she was not tired of wearing baggy clothes to "hide your improper fraction."

"We broke up not too long ago. Instead of you to look for effective belly blast tea for your drum at the front and work on your flat plasma TV at the back. Shey e never tire you to dey wear baggy to hide your improper fraction? It is to be doing police challenge with that man..." a part of his text read.

Joseph Omotayo, the HoD of the Human Interest Desk, contributed to this report, adding the lady reaction to her ex seeking to come back into her life.

Editorial assistant Ololade Olatimehin provided exclusive commentary from a relationship consultant for this report.

Proofreading by Kola Muhammed, copy editor at Legit.ng.

Source: Legit.ng