Lady Exposes Married Kasarani Man who Slide in Her DM: "Be My Secret Side Chick"

Lady Exposes Married Kasarani Man who Slide in Her DM: "Be My Secret Side Chick"

  • A Kenyan woman who had joined a popular dating app with the hopes of meeting her soulmate was shocked to meet a married man
  • The man texted the lady, claiming he was lonely despite being married, and asked her to be his side chick, but she refused
  • Speaking to, the lady said she blocked the man and deleted the app, sharing her experience with another man she met on the app

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A Kenyan woman has exposed a married Kasarani man who begged her to date him.

Man crying (r) while a woman (l) is laughing.
A Kenyan lady tells of a married man begging her to be his side chick. Photo used for illustration purposes. Photo: Getty Images.
Source: UGC

The lady, who had joined a dating app in search of a soulmate, matched with a Kasarani man.

The man introduced himself, asking the pretty lady if she could be his side chick.

"Hey cute, by the way, I am married but lonely and looking for a secret side chick, especially one who misses intercourse. Can we be friends?" he wrote.

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The lady responded, turning down the man's request.

"I'm sorry. I really can't help you," she said.

Below is the screenshot:

Lady leaks chats with married man.
A Kenyan lady has shared chats between her and a married man she met on a dating app. Photo: UGC.
Source: UGC

Lady narrates a horrifying encounter with stranger reached out to the lady for her experience on the dating app, and she said:

"Most of the men are after happy times, nothing serious. Since I joined, I have just come across weird characters with weird requests," she said.

Asked if she had ever met a man from the dating app physically, she recounted her near-death experience with a man who posed as the son of a prominent politician.

"He insisted we meet at his place in Embakasi and after having dinner, he started demanding we have raw intercourse, but I refused. He took a knife and threatened to sl*t my throat, but I was saved after a neighbour knocked on his door. While he was talking to the neighbour, I left and blocked him everywhere," she narrated.

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After an unsuccessful search for her soulmate, the lady revealed she deleted the app and vowed never to search for love online.

Lady exposes chat with married man earlier reported that a young Nigerian woman has come under fire after exposing her conversation with a married man on X.

In the screenshot which she shared, the married man expressed his interest in seeing and chilling with her.

The lady shared the chats on social media to taunt him for wanting to 'chill' with a lady despite being married.

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