Lady Shares Voice Note Of Boy Crying For Love, Post Trends: "See Mumu Dey Cry Because Of Me"
- A young man got many people talking after a voice recording of him crying bitterly made its way online
- The young man cried hard in the audio, and many individuals who listened to it reacted and spoke about the girl
- He asked the lady some important questions while crying bitterly, and the post has gone viral on social media
A young lady got many Nigerians talking after she shared an audio recording of a boy crying just because he loves her.
The lady sent the voice note to her friend, who eventually shared the post online.
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Voice note of crying man goes viral
In the post she shared on her page, @big.favy27, mentioned that her friend sent her the voice message, which contains a statement made by a guy who cried over her just because he loves her.
The individual could be heard crying and asking the girl if loving her is a crime.
He said:
"I don't understand, why are you treating me like this na. Is it a crime to just love you? Is it a crime?"
Source: TikTok
As he said this, he burst into tears, crying because of the way he was being treated by her.
The lady went ahead to share the TikTok post online with a caption that read:
"My friend sent me a voice note of a boy crying over her."
Many people came across the post and shared their thoughts in the comments section.
Reactions as man cries for love
MuNAh
"I de shame for the boy."
DE WICKED BOY said:
"Check well de boy no get money."
Sheisarmah shared:
"i go fess block am i don’t like these type of guys tbh, i love nonchalant guys."
️Haruna stressed:
"Sounds funny until e reach your brother turn."
D-C FURNITURES added:
"If na my brother nothing ft stop me oo I go use the Werey tear rolls Royce."
𝒜𝐵𝐼𝑀𝐵𝒪𝐿𝒜 asked:
"Hope say Una Dey learn ? Nonchalant for life."
Mikky said:
"Shay una see how them carry am come TikTok? if you like no wise."
BIG FRANCIS wrote:
"I Dey love but my own nah with levels nonchalant big boy , I no fit cry for gal wey I Dey use my money take care of lol, broke boys and love nah 5 and 6."
AYOMIDE noted:
"Lol imagine say the guy Dey deceive ham too just because he wan knack ham."
OnLY OnE GrAcE B stressed:
"Omo I cry pass him mk I no lie."
JASPER added:
"Imagine you becoming a billionaire at the age of your battery percentage."
𝙺𝚄𝙽𝙼𝙸 𝙳𝙶𝙰𝙵 noted:
"Brotherhood Una sabi him?"
Niftytop1 stressed:
"wetin be this I no sure say na real cry sha cause."
𝐀𝐫𝐢𝐤𝐞 shared:
"Oh chimmmmm make person cry for me too na."
Rusty said:
"Always nonchalant sha you no fit see me finish and nothing go lead us to this stage make I deh beg na blocking Asap."
luvfave1 noted:
"The boy na last born nothing you wan tell me."
✞Burna✞ said:
"That word see mumu make that guy park go sokoto."
The story shared by the social media user generated widespread attention online, with many people reacting by condemning the man for his actions and the way he expressed his feelings to a lady who did not reciprocate his emotions.
To better understand the situation and the factors that may have led the man to break down in tears, Legit.ng spoke with a relationship therapist.
Mr. Ogwuche Godson of GoRu Academy explained:
"Crying does not automatically mean weakness, and it does not automatically mean real love either. It depends on the reason behind the tears. Sometimes, it reflects genuine emotional attachment and vulnerability, which can be healthy. Other times, it may stem from fear, insecurity, emotional dependence, or unresolved personal issues."
"Real love is not only about intense emotions or tears. It also involves emotional stability, communication, respect, and self control. When crying becomes frequent, uncontrollable, or manipulative, it may point to emotional imbalance rather than love. Healthy love allows you to feel deeply without losing yourself in the process."
Legit.ng took the discussion further by asking why some individuals criticized the man for crying in the viral post.
Mr. Godson said:
"People often mock men who cry because of cultural stereotypes that portray men as always strong and unemotional. Society wrongly equates tears with weakness, even though crying is a natural and healthy way to process emotions."
"Mocking men for crying reinforces toxic masculinity and hinders emotional growth. In reality, men who can express their emotions are often more emotionally intelligent, capable of empathy, and better equipped for healthy relationships."
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In a similar story, Legit.ng reported that a Nigerian lady went viral after ending her relationship with her boyfriend over alleged cheating. A video showed the man in tears after the breakup, while the lady said she no longer trusted him and believed he would continue cheating.
Girlfriend celebrates boyfriend’s birthday in style
Meanwhile, Legit.ng recently reported that a young Nigerian man cried after his girlfriend celebrated his birthday for the first time in many years. He said he had not celebrated his birthday since he was 13.
Even though he told her not to do anything, she surprised him with a cake. The video went viral, and many people praised her for being kind and thoughtful.
Proofreading by Funmilayo Aremu, copy editor at Legit.ng.
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