Lady Shares Call As Woman Begs Her To Leave Her Man, Video Trends: "Please, He's My Everything"
- A woman called another lady and begged her to stop seeing her man because he was not giving her attention like before
- The lady who got the call shared the conversation on TikTok, and many people saw it and started talking about it
- Many people online shared their thoughts and advice, reacting to the woman’s plea and the whole situation
A Nigerian lady has shared a phone conversation where another woman called her and began begging her to please leave her man alone.
She shared this on her TikTok page, and many individuals rushed to the comment section of the post to share their opinions after watching the video.
Source: TikTok
Lady shares phone call of woman
The lady in the video also added a caption to the post as she explained everything that happened in the said post.
According to a post she made available on her page, @jsttoxic5, via the popular social media platform TikTok, she added a description to the post which better explains the content in it.
The description of the post read:
"An unknown number called me in this big 2025 and threatened me to leave her man."
As the TikTok video plays, a lady can be heard in a phone conversation with the girl as they speak.
The lady on the other end begged her to please leave her man alone, explaining that he’s no longer giving her the attention she wants like he used to.
In the conversation, she also mentioned that whenever she asks her man for money, he doesn’t give her the full amount but only a part of it.
She said:
"I beg you, I don't know what's going on with my man, but Abeg, I did not come here to confront you, I just came to beg you."
After she pleaded, the woman who shared the TikTok video asked her who she was talking about.
She said:
"I don't understand, who's your man please? Which man are you talking about?"
The girl on the other end pushed further, saying she could have taken other steps to get what she wanted, but she cannot fight, and pleaded with the woman to understand her.
She continued:
"I wanted to text you on WhatsApp, but I felt you'll use me and do content. I've known about it for a very long time. He's no longer giving me attention, why?"
"I'll demand ₦300k, he'll give me ₦200k. It's not nice na. I don't have anything against you, everybody wants to survive. I'm begging you, girl to girl. Please, I beg you, this man is my everything."
As the video made its way online, concerned individuals stormed the comment section of the post to share their thoughts.
Reactions as woman shares phone call
Berry gold added:
"I will never be a reason for another woman tears."
Ibrotimer noted:
"E Dey sweet your belle.. no worries Your own they front."
BELLA’s DIARY wrote:
"Omor i feel her pain it’s not funny Abeg."
Silver_baby said:
"Omo na that money part Dey pain de girl."
sandra__wright said:.
"You still use am do content the main thing she dey avoid."
vicky_delight shared:
"In as much as I don’t support her for calling because of a man, I still think this is wrong cause she wasn’t rude not funny."
♥ℕ🅸🅃@⨳N⋆≋TI̷ꋬᴺ@ added:
"This thing ehn e funny and same way e no funny cos why these guys ehn dem go make person wan mad but na for person wey go fall in love sha."
𝕋𝕠𝕡 𝕓𝕠𝕪 stressed:
"E Dey sweet you now oh, till it’s your turn sha.. if she knew her worth she wouldn’t be doing this!!!!"
whura laposh noted:
"what do you feel like after posting it and she begged you."
Kaothar wrote:
"The girl that tried this with me in 2018 I made sure she came back to beg me cus why woman go dey her fellow women because of man."
Amara said:
"She’s not threatening you, just begging she’s inlove. But if she did threaten you nah when you go hold her man tight.."
Legit.ng reached out to Mr. Ogwuche Godwin of Goru Counseling and Therapy Services, a certified marriage counselor, therapist, and coach, to get his professional view on a viral TikTok video that captured a woman calling another lady to beg her to leave her man. We asked him to explain what might make someone act in such a desperate way.
He explained that such behaviour often comes from fear and emotional attachment:
“When someone gets to the point of begging another person to leave their partner, it’s usually because they’re afraid of losing what they have. They’ve tied their happiness, their identity, and their emotional stability to that relationship. So the thought of losing the person feels like losing their whole world."
He went on to highlight that insecurity and past experiences can play a bigger role than love itself:
“Most times, it’s not even about love alone; it’s about fear, insecurity, and the belief that they may not find something better. They feel the other person is a threat, instead of seeing that the real issue is within the relationship itself."
Mr. Godwin further explained that this shows a deeper need for self-awareness and healing:
“So that desperation comes from a place of emotional dependence. It shows a need for healing, self-worth, and a better understanding that love should not make you beg to be chosen."
When asked what someone should do if they feel their partner is pulling away, he said it’s important to take calm and thoughtful steps:
"When you start to feel your partner pulling away, the first healthy step is to talk about it calmly, not with accusations or fear. Just say, ‘I feel some distance, can we talk about what’s happening?'"
He stressed that listening is just as important as talking:
“Secondly, listen; really listen, to understand their feelings too. Sometimes it’s stress, sometimes misunderstanding, sometimes emotional disconnection."
He also said focusing on personal growth helps:
"Another important step is to work on yourself as well. Build your confidence, your personal growth, your social life. Don’t make the relationship the only thing in your world."
If issues run deeper, Mr. Godwin suggested seeking professional guidance:
“If the issue feels deeper, seek counseling, either together or individually. Sometimes a neutral space helps both of you open up and reconnect."
He advised against taking frustrations out on a third person:
“The main thing is this: don’t chase, don’t beg, and don’t fight the third party. Focus on rebuilding the connection with your partner and rebuilding your own emotional strength."
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When we asked why some people confront a third party instead of their partner, he said fear and insecurity often drive that behaviour:
“Most times, it comes from fear and insecurity. The person is scared that if they talk to their partner, they may hear the truth they don’t want to face, like the relationship is already weak. So instead, they go after the third party because it feels easier to blame someone outside than to face the pain inside."
He also explained that low self-esteem can misdirect a person’s energy:
“Also, when someone has low self-esteem, they assume the other person is the problem, not their partner’s choices. It’s a way of avoiding the real conversation. But the truth is, the real issue is always between the two people in the relationship, not the outsider."
Finally, we asked what advice he would give to someone who feels like they are competing for their partner’s attention. He said it’s important to step back and reflect:
“If you feel like you’re competing for your partner’s attention, the first thing is to pause. Love is not something you fight for like a prize. If you have to struggle to be seen, something is already wrong."
He added that honest communication is key:
“Talk to your partner honestly and calmly about how you feel. Let them know you want to feel valued and connected. If they are willing to work on the relationship, then you both can rebuild trust and closeness together."
He concluded with a reminder to value oneself:
“But also remember to choose yourself. Build your confidence, your peace, your life outside the relationship. Because when you know your worth, you won’t beg to be loved. The right partner will make space for you without you having to compete."
Watch the video below:
In a similar story, Legit.ng reported that two young women were caught on camera fighting openly in Uyo, the Akwa Ibom state capital, after reportedly clashing over a boyfriend.
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Meanwhile, Legit.ng recently reported that a Nigerian lady went viral after confronting her boyfriend’s alleged side chick in public. In the trending video, the young woman seized the other lady’s phone, claiming her boyfriend bought it and accusing her of secretly dating him.
The two women exchanged harsh words and struggled in front of their friends, causing a scene outside a popular shopping mall. Social media users later reacted, with some insisting the clip looked like a movie or skit.
Source: Legit.ng
