Lady Relocates to Nigeria With Nothing after 3 Years Abroad: "I Feel Like I Failed My Parents"
- A 27-year-old lady has lamented on social media following her relocation to Nigeria after staying abroad for three years
- While she did not disclose the country she left, the young lady admitted that she feels like she let herself and her parents down as she relocated empty-handed
- In a video, she opened up about how she feels starting all over again and sent words of encouragement to anyone facing a similar predicament
A Nigerian lady, @lifesylecreator, has lamented her situation after relocating to Nigeria with nothing following her three-year stay abroad.
In a TikTok video, she shared her story, fears, and struggles.
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Abroad returnee feels she failed her parents
The lady, 27, said she feels like she has failed her parents and herself. She added that she feels like nothing seems to be working out for her and that everyone seems to be ahead of her in life.
The abroad returnee, who shared her story via a voice-over, said it was depressing to return to Nigeria with nothing when her mates had married and have children, while she was yet to even have a boyfriend.
"I feel like I failed my parents, myself. I feel like everything seems not to be working. I feel like they have all left me behind.
"After travelling abroad for three years, coming back home with nothing is so depressing. I feel like that would save me but here I am starting all over from square one. All my mates are married, they are with their children. I don't even have a boyfriend not to talk of marriage.
"Starting all over again with no help from anybody, I have no friends. My friends are far, far ahead of me..."
She encouraged anyone in a similar situation as her not to give up.
"I feel like giving up, but I won't give up. I am strong. Yeah, I know I am strong. I know I am not the only one in this.
"So, if you are going through one or two things out there, I just want to tell you to be strong. Yeah, you are going to stand up one day. You are going to make it one day.
"At the end of the day, everything would make sense. So, just be strong and don't give up. Right here, I am not giving up.
"I know it is going to be worth it one day. Just don't give up."
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Watch her video below:
Lady's story melted hearts
Legit.ng has compiled some reactions to the lady's story below:
tayeolumide said:
"Please do not give up dear, this literally happens to me in year 2020, I have traveled to Dubai in 2017, I came bck with just 25k, But God and my family was there to left me up.... look back nw I give thanks to God."
Tike 🌸🌸🌷 said:
"You are not behind. You are not a disappointment. You have lived, you have tried, and you have fought battles no one else has seen. That is strength. Your parents are proud of you,not for what you bring home, but for the person you are becoming. This is not the end of your story. There are still dreams waiting for you, and you will get there… in your own time. Sending you warm hugs."
Ginola said:
"Your mindset is wrong in the first place. You travelled for three years with the mindset to change the situation. You've learnt something but failed to see it. Look inward and you will discover the new you. First, try wear trouser."
Chiomzybea said:
"Am not upto 25 but I feel am lacking a lot behind … none of my dreams is been achieved, my friends are doing well , am still living with my parents, always meeting the wrong people in my life , I wake up every morning all I feel it’s pain and sadness… it’s well am not upto 25 see the kind of pains am passing through talk more when I reach 25 , no starting point at all , my father is old , my mother just has small business which is not moving, am tired of praying I felt like God is not aware of me …. It’s well a lot in my mind but I know am very strong ."
blaq_barbie🌸🌹 ENUGU MUA said:
"Don’t be discouraged,failure is also part of growth,you’re not alone ,once there’s life there’s hope ,One day we’ll look back and say WOW I MADE IT."
Tina 🇳🇬 said:
"Which of the abroad first? Because even people wey go Cotonou Dey call am abroad."
In a related story, Legit.ng reported that a lady had relocated to Nigeria after living in the UK for years.
Lady relocates to Nigeria from Finland
Meanwhile, Legit.ng previously reported that a lady had relocated to Nigeria after one year in Finland.
She explained that it was really difficult living far away from family and friends, as she was lonely and cried every day.
She said she missed seeing familiar faces in Nigeria and food that reminded her of her childhood. The Nigerian lady added that she missed Nigeria's weather, meals and communal living.
Source: Legit.ng
