Lady Shares How Her Mother Tested Brother's Girlfriend to Know If She's Wife Material
- A Nigerian lady has gone viral on social media after sharing how her mother tested her brother's girlfriend
- In a video posted via her official TikTok account, she hinted that the test was carried out to know if the girl was a wife material
- Commenting on the story, Peace Onwuegbu, a relationship expert, advised against such tests for marriage
A Nigerian lady quickly went viral online after posting a video that detailed how her mother had tested her brother’s girlfriend during a visit.
While posting the video on TikTok, the lady explained the circumstances surrounding the recording.
Source: TikTok
Lady speaks about home test for brother's girlfriend
She narrated that the clip was meant to show what had happened when her brother’s partner had come to their home and her mother had decided to assess the young lady's attitude towards domestic work.
According to the post, the mother had given the guest a large number of plates to wash and had also set her to complete several household chores.
The intention behind the arrangement, as shared by the lady identified as @favourite on TikTok, was to see whether the girl displayed the qualities of someone suitable for marriage.
In her words:
"POV my brother's girlfriend came to visit and my mum decided to test her patience with chores. See her nau. After you finish, I go buy food for you. I go help you pound pepper so you go cook. If my brother later decide say him no go marry her, we go just marry her for my mama na very sweet girl i don heal on her behalf."
Source: TikTok
Commenting on the story, Peace Onwuegbu, a relationship expert, advised against such tests for marriage.
In her words:
"I don't believe this is the right way to prove a woman's worth. A woman's worth is not tied to physical labour. There's more to marriage and relationships than house chores. A woman can be so hardworking but the marriage won't still last or be rosy. It should be the least of worries when something as serious as marriage is involved."
Reactions as lady speaks about brother's girlfriend
The video attracted attention and sparked lots of responses from viewers.
In the comments section, TikTok users had debated the mother’s approach, with some expressing approval of the method while others had questioned its fairness.
Opinions had been divided on whether setting such tasks for a visitor was an appropriate way to judge character.
@Mabel_Gold said:
"See babe don’t give up keep doing what you are doing. I go to different Bank around gbagada to sell chops I get rejected sometimes but I’m not giving up because I know that is what pays my bills."
@LordKayne said:
"Is that why you are crying? Is it a bad thing to sell indomine? Better not put yourself under unnecessary pressure. You're doing well. Keep your head up. Your helper will locate you soon."
@Youdon'tdeserveme said:
"I know we should never say never but NEVER will I do such a thing. There is no level of love that will make me do this. God forbid."
@Marinaaaaa commented:
"I'm currantly reading the book How To Actually Attract by Rick Lewis and all I can say is wow. The style of writing is a unique experience."
@lizzy baby commented:
"Omo no be omo I prefer to remain single let me thank God on behalf of my future mother in-law that is a nice person."
@Asa kabest added:
"Omo this is not helping oo u guys are actually keeping all this for her."
See the post below:
Man tests girlfriend's loyalty
Meanwhile, Legit.ng previously reported that a young man got the shock of his life after pranking his girlfriend, whom he had been dating for only three days.
The man, who desired to get an iPhone for her, decided to test her loyalty first before going ahead with it.
Source: Legit.ng
