Singer Paul Okoye Shares Hot Take on Giving, Spurs Mixed Reactions Online: “Learn When to Stop”
- Nigerian singer Paul Okoye took a moment to advise givers on how far they extend themselves to others
- This came after BBNaija star Phyna opened up on how she spent her prize money from the TV show
- Paul Okoye’s words struck a nerve with many, as they disagreed with him across social media
- Social commentator Badassirudeen Submittulahi Abu weighed in on Paul Okoye’s comment
Nigerian singer Paul Okoye of the defunct Psquare group has weighed in on the ongoing conversation about generosity, following reality star Phyna’s emotional outburst about family demands.
The former Big Brother Naija housemate Josephina Otabor, popularly known as Phyna, trended online after a livestream.
Source: Instagram
Earlier, Phyna was seen during her TikTok live as she ranted about her family. She claimed that all her family wants is what they can benefit from her, even after her sister’s demise..
In a new video, she broke down uncontrollably as she shared how she spent her Big Brother Naija prize money.
According to her, no one advised her to invest after winning the money, as they were only interested in what they could get from her.
She claimed she did a lot of boreholes for family members and supported them whenever they came to her.
“I thought I was helping my family sort out things. I thought I was normal. No money they call, na so I dey share am like mumu,” she confessed.
According to her, none of the adults around encouraged her to save or invest. Instead, she faced endless requests ranging from boreholes to roofing materials.
She admitted that her money began running low, forcing her to cut down on how much she gave out.
“Somebody will ask for 1 million, I’ll say, ‘Okay, wait, let me give you 500,000,’” she explained.
Paul Okoye shares take on giving
Reacting to her story, Paul Okoye shared a blunt piece of advice on Instagram. He wrote:
“In life, sometimes… learn when to stop. Givers will always lack!! Use your brain…”
See his post below:
"Why "givers never lack" is not always reality": Badassirudeen Submittulahi, social commentator
Social commentator Badassirudeen Submittulahi Abu weighed in on Paul Okoye’s comment.
In his words:
“It was absolutely realistic. In fact, it's unrealistic to say, "Givers never lack." It's one of those moral aphorisms that sounds good but has little grounding in reality, much like "Every cloud has a silver lining.
"I don't see anything insensitive about saying that. Helping people is a good thing, but you shouldn't assume they will always be grateful or gracious in return. She should have made immediate plans for her money when she won it instead of giving so much of it away. The same family members and beneficiaries may be the first to distance themselves or even mock her if she eventually falls on hard times."
Netizens react to Paul Okoye's post
His comment has sparked heated debate online
Legit.ng compiled the reactions below:
tamara.debbiee said:
"This is true!!!! The way these same people will switch up on u when u don’t have anymore is crazy. I’m speaking from experience. No let money finish for ur hand no matter what!!!"
yomiiiie said:
"Once socket spoil everybody go commot their charger. Learn how to say no."
official_kaimalight said:
"Chai, and most of them will still be unappreciative of her efforts😔."
amakabenz_
"I’m a chef 👩🍳 you guys should patronise me."
lucas_ugoh said:
"If you don’t discern properly you must lack 😂😂 Even in the Bible some seed fell on the wrong place 😂😂😂."
nasmilia94_ said:
"Even the rich are going broke this period...God abeg oo."
nekky_nneka said:
"Paul too stingy sha. 😂😂."
official_ose007 said:
"No stop 🛑 oo.. always remember family is everything and givers never lack."
Source: Instagram
Mr P locks horns with man
Earlier, Legit.ng reported Peter Okoye of Psquare had a heated moment with a troll who told him to reconcile with his twin brother Rudeboy.
The veteran artist shared a throwback picture of his humble beginnings without putting his twin in the picture.
An overzealous fan came forward to taunt his post, which didn’t end well, as they both attracted attention online.
Source: Legit.ng
