Bambam Opens Up On Marriage Struggles, Shares Marital Advice: "Maybe She Has Forgotten Her BBN Days"
- Actress Bambam has urged couples to avoid intimacy before marriage, as she stressed the importance of counselling and stability
- The movie star also opened up on how she balanced the love scenes on set with her home life
- However, the actress's advice raised eyebrows as fans recalled she had her first child before tying the knot
- An entertainment fan who does not want his name in print noted that the key point in Bambam's marital advice is counselling and readiness
Nollywood actress Bamike Adenibuyan, popularly known as Bambam, has given relationship advice, saying they should keep their bed undefiled.
Speaking on the Echo Room podcast hosted by her husband, Tope “Teddy A” Adenibuyan, Bambam encouraged couples to wait until marriage before being intimate.
The actress disclosed that their love story, which blossomed into marriage after the birth of their first child, was far from a “fairy tale.”
Source: Instagram
She admitted that at some point, they both questioned whether their marriage was truly the will of God, as differences and personal growth brought clashes into their relationship.
She stated:
“I began to evolve as a woman, and he too was discovering himself. Our differences started to clash, and many times we asked ourselves why we were even here. But I held on to God and His promises for my marriage.
I will advise anyone dating, you can keep sex out of the relationship till you are sure of getting married. Just do it. That’s what the scripture says — keep the bed undefiled. Then, before marriage, seek counselling. Ensure that you are emotionally, physically, and mentally stable."
The actress explained that counselling, therapy, and prayer played a crucial role in helping them navigate the difficulties of marriage.
According to her, Teddy A’s decision to surrender his life to Christ became a turning point in their relationship as it made things easier and strengthened their bond.
She also spoke about how she keeps her career separate from her family life. She admitted that her acting style is designed to look believable, but once the director calls “cut,” she immediately switches back to her role as a wife and mother.
Watch the interview here:
Fans question Bam Bam's honesty
Fans were quick to point out the contradiction. While some praised her honesty for advising others to do what she couldn’t, others questioned why she would give guidance she hadn’t followed herself.
@kayfnkay:
"But wait oh, I thought no fornic*tion was part of the 10 commandments. Everyone don normalize am that it has to be a big deal to say no to intimacy before marriage"
@olasubomi001:
"Same Bambam?? I thought they said who lives in a glass house don’t…….."
@_THE_CRAFT3R_
Lovely take. Allow God be the centre of your marriage and your troubles will be a lot lighter"
@OloriOfOloris
"It's cute that they were able to make it work. I use to always side eye and feel like they were incompatible following big brother."
@toh.mee
"Hmmm,aunty bambam have you forgotten?? Bbn days,okay oh"
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Bambam's marital advice is key - Fan
An entertainment fan who does not want his name in print noted that the key point in Bambam's marital advice is counselling and readiness.
He stated:
"At the end of the day, I think her point about counselling, therapy, and emotional readiness is the real takeaway. Whether you decide to wait or not, being mentally and emotionally prepared for marriage is what will sustain it, not just romance or attraction."
Lady delivers gift box to Bambam
Earlier, Legit.ng reported that a businesswoman treated Bambam to a pleasant surprise by giving her a gift box
Actress Bambam has remained on the lips of many Nigerians following her role in the trending movie "Love in Every Word".
The lady captured Bambam's heartwarming reaction when she was handed the gift box, and it melted hearts.
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Source: Legit.ng
