"I’m Tired": Nigerian Lady Suggests ‘Data Cards’ to End Endless Talking Stage Conversations
- A Nigerian lady says she is tired of taking stage, revealing personal details over and over to men, and has shared a list called talking stage version 1.0
- The lady suggests a platform or data cards where personal information can be stored, so people can learn about each other
- She also says she’s waiting for her parents to link her with her future husband, expressing that she no longer wants to get to know anyone better anymore
A Nigerian lady lamented online, saying she is tired of the talking stage. She released a long list which she called 'talking Stage 1.0,: containing about 16 pieces of information her talking stage partner must provide before advancing to the next stage.
According to her, she is exhausted from always talking about herself whenever she chats with men.
Source: TikTok
Lady introduces ‘talking stage 1.0’ to avoid repeating herself
She expressed herself in a post shared online, noting that she no longer wants to know anybody better because she is tired of the repeated process.
She added that she has revealed so much about herself during different talking stages, yet none of them has led anywhere.
Hence, she is frustrated with the whole process of constantly repeating details about herself to different men.
In a part of her video, she suggested that there should be a platform where people’s personal information is stored.
Source: TikTok
According to her, whenever someone enters a talking stage, they should be able to visit the platform and learn about the other person instead of engaging in long conversations.
This was contained in a post she made on her page, @henrietta_c1, via TikTok.
Speaking her mind, she stressed:
"I'm tired of the chit chat."
“I’m saying this from the depth of my heart, I don’t want to get to know anybody better. I don’t care about your favourite colour, I don’t care about what you like to eat.”
“I’m tired of talking about myself.”
"Even when I’m genuinely interested in wanting to know you, I’m just tired.”
“I’m tired of letting people know where I’m from, what I do, what I like, what I like to eat.”
While speaking on her proposed idea for a platform, she said:
"I have a very good business I also want to talk about regarding this issue. I’m just dashing you people the idea, get investors and take care of it.”
"You people should start doing data cards, like ATM cards with personal data. My data will be there. When I meet you and you want to know me better, I’ll just swipe or something like that. People that have known me previously can even put up their review.”
In her comment section, she shared about 16 details that her talking stage partner must provide before advancing further. She titled it:
"Talking Stage Documentation, Version 1.0.”
She wrote:
Talking Stage Documentation
Version: 1.0
Purpose: To provide a quick and clear introduction during the talking stage because I’m tired.
Full Name
Origin
Birthday
Occupation
Genotype/Blood Group
Siblings
Faith
Favourite Colour
Favourite Food
Movie Genres
Music
Interests
Drink
Smoke
Hobbies
Phobias
She also added in the comments that she needs her parents to link her up with her future husband, as she is tired of the talking stage.
“I’m just waiting for my parents to tell me who my husband is at this point.”
As her post made its way online, concerned individuals stormed the comment section to share their thoughts.
Reactions as lady quits talking stage
MoonMaker asked:
"You don’t care keh??? When you reach 35yrs you go they ask 25years boy what he like to do for fun.'
Comfort shared:
"Anytime a man says he wants to know me i send my cv to him and tell him to read it."
Endwell Ezemonye added:
"Anything talking stage is a scam. Every true love and solid relationship starts with flinging and flirting. Yuu see all those romantic date, all those checking up on you, it's fake life. Bro invite her over, if she say no, that means, she won't be interested. Friendship works organically."
Child Of GOd stated:
"they don ghost me ooo after 4 days relationship Omo."
davies_tony shared:
"You’re just talking to someone you’re not interested in. When you start getting to know someone you’re genuinely interested in you won’t feel like you’re working."
perfumevendorinojo32 stated:
"You see that where are you from I no Dey even answer."
Veeveyaan wrote:
'I don call that boy tire. He said he’s phone on silent. He will call back later."
Temitope Oloyede said:
"Okay can I know your Family so we can discuss bride price list and possibly pay that same day. Let's cut the chase how you see am?'
Oma added:
"Once you ask I want to know more about you I just get tired."
nancybliss839 stressed:
"I don’t even know what I do anymore sef lol, few days ago, I told someone I’m not in the mood to know new people😔 left his message unread and go on about my day, not a flex tho, I’m not just mentally prepared to know new people….. if that make sense."
Adedoyin said:
"the way I’ve had peace of mind since i stopped “talking stages”
mhizmoesha wrote:
"Make God gimme husband make I rest I Don tire to they tell 10 men how my day went."
AFFORDABLE FINDS BY VERACIOUS noted:
"Some days back I read my conversations with a guy we had in 2020, I was so sweet then. I was just asking myself where all this sweetness go, e no dey again o 😂 I’m drained and tired too."
Nigerian Lady Ends Talking Stage Over Man’s Love for Bread
Meanwhile, Legit.ng reports that a young Nigerian lady has revealed why she ended her talking stage with a man who showed interest in her.
According to her, the admirer’s daily habit of eating bread was a dealbreaker, and she decided to stop communicating with him.
Her revelation, which she shared on the X app, sparked a flurry of reactions online. While some users found her reason hilarious, others argued that food choices should not determine the success of a relationship.
Source: Legit.ng
