Nigerian Man Invited to Family Meeting, Told to Impregnate Woman Within 3-Month

Nigerian Man Invited to Family Meeting, Told to Impregnate Woman Within 3-Month

  • A Nigerian man ignited a social media debate when he received an invitation to a family gathering
  • In the widely shared video, he was instructed to impregnate a woman within three months without delay
  • The video captures an exchange among elders during the meeting, where they issued an ultimatum: either he must impregnate or marry a woman promptly

A Nigerian man found himself at the center of a social media storm after receiving an unexpected invitation to a family gathering.

During this gathering, elders issued a rather unusual ultimatum: he must either impregnate or marry a woman within a tight three-month deadline.

Man given ultimatum to impregnate woman at family meeeting
Man giving ultimatum at family meeting, Photo credit: Shera Langdon. For illustration purposes only. The depicted persons are not related.
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The man’s video, captioned by @tennie_xoxo reads: “Dem invite me to family meeting,” captured the tense exchange among family members.

Social media users have been buzzing with opinions

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Watch the video below: compiled some of the reactions below:

Mariam said:

“I’m here oh single mother of 1 you go fit manage me.”


“Them go whine u but know painc.”

Y’all I’m Bukunmi:

“I’m ready for serious relationship, I’m serious about it abeg this one no be memes.”


“Am single and u are single also. Case settle just hire me as your fake wife.”

Wummy _stitches:

“Na why I no dey go family meeting.”


“It is well they don remove me from family group because say Ino get person wey I Dey date.”


“Omo na wetin I face this morning my papa tell me say if I don reach 25 I no fit see husband again.”

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“Fine Boy Ojo nlo marriage advice dey sweet for their mouth ehn.”

Fine Boy:

“Them give you money before you comot the meeting? If no, olori ebi, warn yourself o.”


“Me yesterday they said I should try and born even if I don’t want to get married.”


“Me I regret say I go ileya she one uncle say if I no carry belle come next year make I no come anyways I don reach my house back make unna help me find husband too o.”

Man returns to Nigeria, seeks wife

Meanwhile, earlier reported that a Nigerian man in the diaspora said he was returning to Nigeria in search of a life partner.

@obiozubulu made his decision known to the public via TikTok.

@obiozubulu shared a video in which he was on a flight, suggesting that he was already headed to Nigeria as he said.

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In another development, also reported that a Nigerian man announced plan to take a third wife, who must be willing to relocate abroad.

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