“He Has People to Support”: Oyinbo Wife Gives Marriage Advice to White Ladies Who Want African Men

• An oyinbo lady has told her fellow white women how they can stay married to an African man without troubles
• The lady said allowing the man to express his culture freely is an excellent way to enjoy a lovely marriage
• Using the experience from her marriage to an Igbo man, the lady noted that it is always good to know the man supports people back home

An oyinbo lady married to a Nigerian man has gone on TikTok to advise her fellow foreign women interested in marrying African men, especially those from Nigeria.

The lady (@baby_oku_germany) said that the partner must understand that the Nigerian man has his culture, and they should not try to superimpose theirs on him. She stated:

"An African man can never forget his root, he can never forget his culture."

African men have responsibilities

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Another thing she spoke about was an African (Nigerian) man having responsibilities to his family back home, meaning he is a support system to many because he is abroad.

In the video, she said unlike in Europe, where there is a social system, it is not so in Africa as an African man always has to send money home to take care of their old ones.

Allow African men teach children their culture

The lady also stressed the need for an oyinbo female partner to respect her husband because, in Africa, women are not expected to be equal to their husbands.

Among other things, she said a white wife should allow her African husband to teach their children his culture.

Watch the video below:

Legit.ng compiled some of the reactions below:

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Janet said:

"I wanna visit Africa (especially Ghana) with my son, but maybe when he is a little bit older. Roots and culture are very important that’s a fact."

Cris said:

"A very intelligent woman like you must be the first lady of the women's real intelligence union."

Rosie said:

"Girl you said it all!!! i celebrate you!"

David Adepoju said:

"I really appreciate your understanding about African man. God bless your home in Jesus Christ Mighty Name."

Best said:

"My dear I love your advice pls can you introduce me to a white understanding woman like you."

Gifty said:

"U’ve won the guiness records of the wisest woman."

Oyinbo lady takes boyfriend to see her parent

Meanwhile, Legit.ng earlier reported that an oyinbo lady shared a video that showed the moment she took her Nigerian boyfriend to see her relatives during Christmas.

The Polish lady stated that though she knew the young man was far from home, she wanted to do everything to make him "feel at home."

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Lady meets oyinbo husband online

In other news, a beautiful young lady shared a video of herself and her handsome oyinbo lover. She revealed that they both met on a dating app.

The lady, @benithemia, said the lover bought her a car two weeks into their relationship. Later, he proposed at a time both of them never knew she was already pregnant.

Source: Legit.ng