2 Best Friends Asked for My Hand in Marriage and I Love Both of Them: Lady Is Confused, Seeks People’s Opinion

2 Best Friends Asked for My Hand in Marriage and I Love Both of Them: Lady Is Confused, Seeks People’s Opinion

  • Two best friends have proposed love to a Ghanaian lady and she finds herself in a fix as she loves both of them
  • Narrating the story in an anonymous letter, the lady said she is not ready to lose both men because of the love she has for them
  • She also indicates that it seems impossible for her to hurt one person and choose the other

A young lady who chose not to disclose her identity has gotten thousands of people reacting online after she narrated the love situation that she currently finds herself in.

She's confused and needs help

In an anonymous letter that was shared on social media by popular relationship advisor, Abena Manokekame, the lady indicates that two men who are best friends both expressed interest in her.

According to the narrator, the most confusing part of the entire situation is that she loves both of them equally and does not want to hurt either one of them by accepting the other's proposal.

2 bestfriends have proposed to me & I love both what should I do - GH lady
2 best friends have proposed to me & I love both what should I do - GH lady Photo Credit: Per-Anders Pettersson
Source: UGC

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To make matters even worse, the lady says she does not want to lose both either, as that would make her feel heartbroken.

What social media users are saying

After reading her full letter, below were some thoughts expressed by social media users.

@catherine_sowah mentioned:

"It's either she doesn't love any of them or she loves one, but the other offers more ( physical appearance, more etc.). Or she loves her male friend's friend and doesn't want to hurt his feelings."

@herbertbedi indicated:

"You can't accept one and let the other go because you love both equally. You can't walk away either because it will break your heart yet you still want advice?? Looks like you took a stand already. How is it possible for people to love two people equally??"

@DegreatAyax said:

"Are they also in love with you?Sister, open your eyes. BOYS have everything planned. Let them go unless you want them both to smash you."

He didn't collect my number

Meanwhile, Legit.ng earlier reported that a young lady and social media influencer, Tima Ambali, in a short video posed a serious question to her followers.

The lady said she was left confused when a man she vibed with only dropped her a business card instead of getting her contacts.

After narrating her ordeal, the young lady asked people for advice. She said she really does not know what to do with the card.

Source: Legit.ng

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