Nigerian Woman Shares Why She Regrets Leaving Her Marriage of 6 Years, Seeks Advice
- A Nigerian woman narrated why she regretted leaving her marriage of six years, sparking mixed reactions
- She opened up about what led to the separation and how her husband treated her in the marriage
- Many who came across the video shared what they observed about the woman's experience, sparking mixed reactions
A Nigerian woman shared why she regretted leaving her marriage of six years.
She shared how the marriage went, opening up about her suspicion, which led to the marriage's crash.
Source: TikTok
In a TikTok video by @bisconmedia, the woman, who spoke in Yoruba, narrated how her husband always took care of her and the kids.
Three years into the marriage, she shared what had changed in the relationship and why she accused him of cheating.
She said in the viral video:
“I regret that I left my husband. He was taking care of us, our kids and my family. Three years into the marriage, I was the ones always complaining because my husband was always receiving some calls that he couldn't answer in my presence. That's I started lamenting and accusing him of cheating, my husband always tells me to calm down, that he's not cheating.
"But because I am hot-minded and I always said I would never stay with an unfaithful partner, I started monitoring my husband. I was always checking his phone."
The video was captioned:
"I regret that I leave my 6yrs marriage. In fact, I want to go back to my husband but its too late."
Watch the video below:
A marital coach, Esther Usetim, who spoke to Legit.ng shared her advice for the woman.
She said:
"She should consider professional help if she can. Therapy or counseling can be very powerful in working through regret, grief, and rebuilding confidence.
"She has to accept her reality and move on. Instead of seeing her decision as a mistake, she should reframe it as a choice she made, with the knowledge and feelings she had then, knowing that she acted based on what she thought was her best interest at that time.
Reactions as woman regrets leaving 6-year marriage
@Chi said:
"If you can survive first 5 years of marriage waten dey again wey person no go endure. Mine is almost 6 years now, abeg am not going back to single life if he like sef make he go carry second wife am not leaving to anywhere again , me and him go reap the labour of our children together. he is a good man sha. Make God continue to lead us."
@SAMTECH said:
"U didn't tell us the man that was deceiving you before u leave.."
@Djwaxma wale (Da Mix Teacher) said:
"That time is because someone is deceiving you outside then...make una dey talk true jare."
@King Concord Montero said:
"She wasn’t even honest in this story. There was already a guy in the picture before she left her hubby. But she won’t say it."
@Prayerseller said:
"I love the fact that she didn’t lie against the husband, 99% of single mother will never admit that they are wrong."
Source: TikTok
In related stories, a lady shared how she left her marriage after four years while a lady filed for divorce after one week of marriage.
Divorced lady's comment on abusive marriage trends
Meanwhile, Legit.ng previously reported that a young lady who got divorced said she would not advise other women to leave their abusive marriages.
She shared her experience when she decided to leave her husband and why her advice was hers alone.
Those who came across the post had mixed reactions and shared their thoughts on the lady's remarks.
Proofreading by James Ojo, copy editor at Legit.ng.
Source: Legit.ng
