Lady Who Shared Strict Criteria for Choosing Partner Stirs Drama Online, Many Nigerian Men React

Lady Who Shared Strict Criteria for Choosing Partner Stirs Drama Online, Many Nigerian Men React

  • A Nigerian lady trended on social media after she stated that she cannot date a man who earns the same salary as her
  • The lady claimed in a street interview that she would find it difficult to respect a partner if they were in the same income bracket
  • Social media users reacted to her statement after she failed to mention her boyfriend's name when asked to give him a shout-out

A Nigerian lady has stirred massive conversations online after she revealed her strict criteria for choosing a romantic partner.

In a viral street interview, the lady explained that she currently earns N200,000 at her workplace and expects her man to earn significantly more.

Nigerians react after lady says that she cannot date man who earns the same amount she does
A Nigerian lady gives strict criteria before she can date. Photo credit: EkafTV/TikTok
Source: TikTok

According to her, she cannot settle down with anyone who brings home the same amount because it would affect the respect in the relationship.

She said:

"I can't date someone with the same income bracket."

Man reacts to lady's dating claims

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The video, which was shared on X, showed the lady explaining that "disrespect comes with nature" when a woman earns the same as her man.

Reacting to the clip, an X user identified as Ayo-Elesho criticised the woman’s statement, arguing that her comments suggested she would disrespect her partner if he ever lost his job or faced financial difficulties.

He said:

"This lady said she can’t respect someone in the same income bracket as her because “disrespect comes with nature.”
This means that if her man loses his job, she’ll disrespect him.
When asked to give her boyfriend a shoutout, she couldn’t mention his name, probably because she was dating multiple guys.
I hope her ‘serious’ boyfriend sees this video and does the needful."

Reactions as lady makes dating claims

Legit.ng has compiled some reactions to the lady's post below:

@AdenekanJosh said:

"Most Nigerian women do not know that it is easier for them to be rich than to marry a rich man."

@MaomahuO said:

"Do not be surprised if she has struggling male siblings."

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@Raysolop said:

"Or she’s not just proud of the guy? He’s probably close to her income bracket too so."

See the post below:

Lady breaks up with first-class student

Earlier, Legit.ng reported that a Nigerian woman shared that she once dated a man mainly because he was a student with a first-class.

Source: Legit.ng

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Oluwadara Adebisi (Human Interest Editor) Adebisi Oluwadara is a Human Interest Editor who joined Legit.ng in January 2026. He has over seven years of experience in press release writing and journalism. He graduated from Obafemi Awolowo University, Ile-Ife, Osun State, in 2021 with a bachelor's degree in Food Science and Technology. However, he was mentored in journalism and became a certified journalist after completing the Google News Initiative courses in Advanced Digital Reporting and Fighting Misinformation. He can be reached at oluwadara.adebisi@corp.legit.ng

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