The man I planned to marry dumped me after I helped him get to South Africa - Lady shares story

The man I planned to marry dumped me after I helped him get to South Africa - Lady shares story

A female Legit.ng reader has asked for advice on what to do after she was dumped by her boyfriend who promised to marry her. The lady who shared her story with Legit.ng noted that he stopped being good to her after he left Nigeria.

The Legit.ng reader explained that it wasn’t easy for her to get education due to lack of funds after her parents passed away. She also revealed that she had to bounce from job to job before she found a stable one with a good income.

According her, she was home surfing the internet when she received a friend request on Facebook from a man she later found out was from Osun state where she hails from. They got talking and started dating.

After sometime, the man told her he wants to travel out to make money and marry her. She explained that she tried everything to get money for them to travel to South Africa together.

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The lady stated that her boyfriend changed towards her after they got to South Africa and asked her to come back to Nigeria and prepare for their wedding while he makes more money for them.

She revealed that he never came and later dumped her with the excuse that he was not yet ready for the next step.

Read her story below:

“One day, one of my colleagues reported me to our boss and asked her to suspend me. I was suspended without giving the grace to say my own side and I went back home. I was online one day and a guy sent a request to me we started talking on phone and later knew where are from the same town, he told me he wants to marry me that u should help him arrange for him to get to SA. He got there and become another person completely. In a nutshell, he asked me to come to Nigeria and start preparing for our wedding while he stays back to work for money. I came back 2014 and the guy refused to come back till Nov last year when I saw him he told me he’s not yet ready that he needs to work for money meanwhile I sent him 50k which I borrowed from my boss and didn't get salary for 3 months just cos of him. Now I'm jobless and I've become an object of reproach to my family. I'm finding it difficult to sleep at night I've been to many pastors but they only feed me with the word. I'm dying!”

What do you think she should do?

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