Lady Speaks as Father’s Family Drags Her For Not Using Their Surname on Late Mother’s Obituary
- A lady spoke up as her father’s family dragged her for not using their surname in her late mother’s obituary
- Many reacted as the lady opened up about what her mother experienced and how she fared when she was alive
- She also revealed that her parents had been separated for over 30 years, as she opened up about caring for her mum
A Nigerian lady, Eniola Adeniji, said her father’s family were angry with her because she didn’t use their surname on her late mother’s obituary and burial printings.
She stated that she used her mother’s maiden name on the death certificate and other documents.
Source: Facebook
On her Facebook page, she clarified that her parents had been separated for over 30 years and she had been taking care of her mother for 21 years.
Eniola said in her post:
“A little humour in the midst of my grief: My Father’s family dragging my asss because all burial printings have my Mum’s maiden name as her surname. They’ve been separated for over 3 decades even before his death, but somehow I’m supposed to put his name as her surname, on her death certificate and burial printings.
“It’s obvious they didn’t get the memo, that the woman that they cut off her legs indeed gave birth to a daughter with wings.
“And what’s more annoying for them, ain’t nobody able to bully me about not giving us anything for her burial. I cared for her while alive for 15 years and almost 6 years of her sickness (That’s 21 years), I’m perfectly able to give her a befitting burial.”
Source: Facebook
Reactions as lady’s father’s family drags her
Eze Constance said:
"They will always major in the minor. People that had no idea how she was faring all these while. Sorry for the experience. Expect more nonsénse suggestions sha."
Onyedikachukwu Adaolisa Victoria said:
"They must think her life decisions starts and ends with them. Be comforted, ma'am. Hugs to Jasmine."
Temi Adenike said:
"Sending you lots of love and support, praying strength and courage to face all in with your family during this difficult period."
Hammed Kafayat said:
"As e dey pain them, e dey sweet you. Well done sis, you're doing well."
Tope Writes said:
"Love me a woman who knows her worth!"
Precious Wills John said:
"May God bless you and also protect you, they got nothing on you daughter of Grace... They will cry bl00d."
Ishioku Bamidele Gloria said:
"They didn’t inform them that the time and season had changed. The strong, sis."
Rita Eke said:
"May the Lord continue to be with and strengthen you in every way even as you nevigate this period,dear sis..... God's gat you."
Queenabel Chy Victor said:
"The earlier they learn the better for them patriarchal maniacs. Ha zuzuwe,show them the stuff you are made of sis, Cyber hugs."
Lady's stepmother rejects her brother's burial
Meanwhile, Legit.ng previously reported that a Nigerian lady narrated the emotional drama during her brother’s burial in her father’s compound.
She shared how she was told to leave the corpse outside, as the stepmother rejected the burial on the property.
In a viral TikTok video, she blamed her late mother for marrying into a polygamous family full of conflict.
Source: Legit.ng
