Feminist Recalls How Unexpected Question Ruined Her Date With an Attractive Man, People React
- A feminist shared how her date with an attractive man was ruined after he asked her a question
- The lady noted that while she was eating with her date at a restaurant, he asked her the question unexpectedly
- She mentioned how he reacted after she gave him a response, sparking reactions from netizens
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A lady recalled how she went on a date with an attractive man who asked her an unexpected question.
She stated that while they were still eating, the man held her hands and asked her if she was a feminist.
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In an X post by @Zioraife, the lady said she replied to him and noticed a change in his character.
The tweet read:
“Went on a date with one of the most attractive men I've ever met, what you'd call a prime specimen of virile maleness. Halfway into our tasty dinner he dropped his fork, took my hands into his, slowly fixed his electrifying gaze on me and asked so softly, "Are you a feminist?"
“You could tell the survival of whatever it was we both wanted depended entirely on my answer, he seemed to desperately need me to be sensible because he liked me well enough. "Yes, of course", I answered and he seemed to wither in a Now-why-does-this-have-to-be-my-lot? way.
“I pitied him, and quite frankly wished I had another answer to that question in that moment. The possibilities if I said no seemed endless and I still think about that night with a tinge of regret. But I'm never going to have another answer to that question, it'll always be yes. I liked that this happened very early, before I developed any real interest or feelings for him beyond burning, fervent desire; because we didn't meet online so there was no way to vet him. My strength of character is great but I know just how hard unlearning him would have been.”
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In a chat with Legit.ng, a relationship coach, Esther Usetim, shared why feminism should not be grounds for refusing to date a lady.
She said:
"Being a feminist is not a crime or an ailment to make a man refuse dating a lady. As a matter of legality, refusing to date or marry a lady because of her ideologies may be labeled an abuse or a stigma. Every woman is at liberty to view life from any angle she chooses to.
"However, it is worthy to note that not all kinds of men can get entangled with a feminist. For example, a cultural or traditional man especially in the African setting may never be able to settle with a feminist who believes in equality of roles and responsibilities."
Reactions trail lady’s date experience
@TrajHH_88 said:
"You lost a husband for an idealogy. Wild."
@abike1999 said:
"You may not realize it now, but you probably saved your own life."
@simply_idera said:
"Mind you, what could have triggered the question would have been something simple like insinuating you believe a woman is a complete human being."
@Soweto_God said:
"Maybe your definition of a feminist isn’t his own, indulging him more on this topic would have enabled you to understand where he comes from & where you come, I have met many women who are feminists but have different concepts of what feminism means to them & what they stand for."
In a related story, a lady shared how her date was ruined after she ordered for her friend while another lady was dragged online after spending a huge sum of money on a date.
Man tricks lady into paying for food
Meanwhile, Legit.ng previously reacted after a Nigerian lady shared how a man tricked her into paying N57,000 for food and fuel on their first date.
She spilled details about how it happened, stating that the man claimed to be having network issues.
Many who came across the post shared their thoughts on the lady’s ordeal after reading her reaction.
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