- A Nigerian motivational speaker has shared his thoughts on the idea that women are the only ones expected to give full commitment in a marriage
- The motivational speaker expressed that if a woman is expected to give full commitment a man should also do the same
- Solomon Buchi had addressed the issue after Tobi Bakre released a video of his parents sharing some tips on how to keep a marriage
Legit.ng had earlier reported that Big Brother Naija 2018 star, Tobi Bakre, had released a video of his parents giving marital advice to celebrate their 29th wedding anniversary.
The reality star's mother had shared some tips on how she and her husband continue to have lasting relationship. She expressed that women need to learn not to be too jealous because he does not solve anything.
Tobi's mother also noted that women should allow their men be, and let them do whatever they want. She stated that they would always come back to where they belong at the end of the day.
29 years of marriage is not easy, there would have been ups and downs, but the most important thing is the fact that they made it work. However, motivational speaker Solomon Buchi does not agree with all the advice given by the reality star's parents.
According to Buchi, the idea that women need to live with men's irresponsibility and lack of commitment in a marriage is wrong. Buchi expressed that a woman should not be given the sole responsibility of commitment.
The motivational speaker also noted that he does not agree with the fact that Tobi's mother said women should be happy that they were chosen by a man. He said marriage is not a trophy to women.
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Read comments below:
mowunmiofficial: "Cr@p or not it worked for them for 29 years if you don't agree with her just waka pass and stop writing story book cos of someone's else's happy marriage."
dw_______7: "Funny how you said “modern women” ask your so called feminist if they would prefer women like their mothers or women like themselves if they had the chance of choosing."
joanna_ayooluwa: "I agree with you. However, I watched the full video on YT and she commended the man for being faithful. She also said she married him because he promised that he wouldn't be a polygamist. It may look as if she's indulging men, but not really."
obaluaiye: "Hope you’re married sha @solomon_buchi if not please shut up!!!"
dw_______7': "I didn't watch the video, but I'd rather I take advices from a woman with 29 happy years of experience over anything from some random kids with a high probability of being raised in a broken home. I said high probability cos if you were from a stable home, your mom would probably tell you the same thing as that woman in the video. Keep deceiving them. You won’t be there when they finally have issues in their homes."
Meanwhile, Nigerian celebrities have weighed in on the beef between actress Tonto Dikeh and estranged husband Olakunle Churchill. Legit.ng reported that celebrities shared their thoughts on Dikeh's recent outburst about her marriage to Churchill.
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