Author Toyosi Akerele reacts to Gbenro Ajibade's calling out his wife Osas Ighodaro on social media

Author Toyosi Akerele reacts to Gbenro Ajibade's calling out his wife Osas Ighodaro on social media

Marriage is a union between two people who are ready to make sacrifices for each other especially after a child is involved. However many young couples seem not to know how to handle issues when they arise.

On February 17, 2019, a number of people were surprised to Nollywood actor Gbenro Ajibade, calling out his actress wife Osas Ighodaro, on social media.

According to him she was fond of neglecting their two-year-old daughter to go out partying at odd hours. He also gave her a final warning as he revealed that their union is not a do or die affair.

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Many Nigerians had different reactions to his outburst including social entrepreneur and author, Toyosi Akerele-Ogunsiji. The young woman took to her Instagram handle to share her own experience as a mother as she reacted to the issue.

She explained that she once had to take her one-year-old son to work after he fell seriously ill. Toyosi also added that responsibility teaches empathy and working women often go through a lot.

The mother of one also condemned Gbenro’s outburst at his wife because ‘a man whose diatribe on social media was intended to destroy you is unfit for your Leadership & undeserving of your Love’.

She wrote:

“ON OSAS & GBENRO

This is my Son in my office, about 13months old in these photos in January 2019.

Mine is perhaps one of the most insane schedules a working woman can have. On this day, I had important meetings at work, my Husband had travelled and my Son was ill, I was scared to take him to Creche so I packed a crib, his bags et al and took him to work. I took breaks in between calls & typing emails to change diapers and feed him. I worked when he slept. That day, I learnt something very simple in a very profound way - RESPONSIBILITY TEACHES EMPATHY.

My colleagues came to check on my son & I seized the chance to tell the women to feel free to bring their children to work on challenging days like this if they have any.

People who work with me know I give a lot of room & support to our female staff. I menstruate so I understand the days they are moody & cranky. I know people have to come to work on days their boyfriends are breaking their hearts. Women go through multiple challenges in the line of duty while chinning up Professional Careers.

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I read the ignominious public commentary Gbenro published on social media about his Wife, Osas yesterday & I cringe for Women who "marry down". To Bosses at Work & Husbands at home, if you've ever been responsible in your Life, you'll know how to care & nurture. No one will need to teach you to be kind & liberal.

Even if Osas was ever wrong, that puerile outburst from an absentee husband/father is telling of his poor character.

I don't hold brief for Osas & I hope she adjusts where/if she should but a Man whose diatribe on social media was intended to destroy you is unfit for your Leadership & undeserving of your Love.

One more reason I remain thankful for my healthy self esteem & radical mind which made me not marry till I turned 31 despite societal pressure but which also made me wait & live my life on my own terms until I met a grounded & solid Man who loves & respects me. Men don't come factory fitted or with NAFDAC No. so there are no perfect men anywhere but Never Marry Down Ladies. Keep Growing - Everything Good will come.

P.S. Enemies, It's a Monday so I'm working and this has nothing to do with Feminism.”

Hmm...Nawa o. We hope they settle issues amicably.

Meanwhile Legit.ng previously reported that Nollywood actress, Yvonne Jegede, has finally removed her husband's name from her social media handles.

Earlier on, Legit.ng reported the speculations circulating the internet which suggested that the marriage of Nollywood actors, Yvonne Jegede and Kunle Fawole, may have hit the rocks. This was fueled by the fact that the actor did not acknowledge the birth of 'their' son on social media.

Following months of speculations by fans and cryptic messages individually posted on social media by the estranged couple, it appears their split might just be for real. Yvonne who used to go by the Instagram username, @yvonnejegedefawole has yanked off her husband's name and is back to @iamyvonnejegede.

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