Often times, many people nurse different views about relationships and how or when they should happen. Ali Baba, a comedian of renowned prowess, took to giving his own opinion of when a woman should rightly get married. According to him, a lady who still has financial challenges have no business with marriage.
The comedian expressed his opinion on his Instagram page. He boldly came out to tell his female fans that the era of being financially dependent on men is over.
Hence, rather than nurse thoughts that their prospective suitors and husbands will take care of them, they should go out there and hustle hard in order to be financially independent.
Ali Baba did not just talk about the ladies alone. He also addressed the men. The comedian warned the male folks against holding on to the idea that a woman cannot be financially independent. He also condemned those who were of the opinion that a woman who is buoyant economically will make them weak.
See his post below:
"That era of being financially dependent on a man expired many years ago. Sadly, very few women started late to realise that they also had the equal PERSONAL requirements to make themselves, FINANCIALLY INDEPENDENT. MANY of the men who also believed that women should not be financially independent were also everywhere. And with time, many of those men, where in places of authority and economic positions of influence.
"Such men also started to see that many women were a threat to their masculinity. And did everything to block them. Like a woman can not bail anyone arrested. Women can not rent properties.... They failed to accept that women were capable of pulling their weight when shouldered with responsibilities, BUT DID BETTER THAN THE MEN, who went head to head with them. And still play their roles as women. In school, you will remember, if you want to be honest, there were ladies who were constantly in 1st to 10th positions.
"And there were heavy men, who were unashamedly in the 30th to 32nd positions. That was the start. It became more glaring that women can be equally smart and even smarter. Many of these men, were in any case being taught by women, as teachers, lecturers and professors. So, gradually, the thought of a woman being DEPENDENT ON any man started fading. Especially when the men started having them as bosses, and learning under their feet. Humbling.
"However, it needs to be further emphasised in these day and age, that the days of a woman being DEPENDENT are gone. Or nearly gone. So, it's clear, that financial instability of women is the major reason many wpmen don't get treated like they should. It turns relationships to cash and carry or business transactions. It also then makes many men believe, that financial independence will take away their power. Only WEAK MEN think like that. And women who think they must go into a relationship because its their only way to financial stability are the ones who empower them."
Several fans of the comedian have given their two cents opinion on what Ali Baba wrote. Many were of the view that he was right in saying ladies should stay away from marriage till they could 'afford it'.
See some of the reactions below:
ladymek_stores: "Don't know why anyone will not want to make her own money, my money is different from our money Girls. Women arise and do more."
meggieparis: "Exactly what all my friends should ish everyday they will shouting get married as if that is the only achievement on the table.thank you sir."
rose_ekemma: "Men in other to get this notion need a serious paradigm shift, because sadly a lot of men are jealous and AFRAID of the power of a successful women and deeply intimidated by the potential of a productive female. So who is gonna move the cheese and change the narrative and would they change? Goes for the man and the woman."
queenbee1565: "Hmm. Word!!!! I don't think a financially dependent woman exists anymore. Even from the womb, females now know that they are OYO financially. Even my 2year old daughter knows that. She tried to sell her unfinished lunch to me yesterday."
the_aniekeme: "My mum needs to see this..... So she can stop praying for husband for me "
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Recently, Ali Baba took to giving his own opinion about the place of religion in a relationship. According to him, religious differences does not affect the happiness or unhappiness of a couple.
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