The struggles single mothers face especially in the areas of new relationships are one too many. In this regard, a lady who has chosen to stay anonymous reached out to Legit.ng about a matter of great concern to her. The issue has to do with the relationship challenge of a friend of hers who is a mother of one child.
According to this anonymous lady, her 27-year-old friend who was simply identified as Precious started a man who was 41 years old. The relationship which began two years ago was budding well until Precious's boyfriend started requesting that she stay away from all men.
He even told her not to interact with her baby daddy. However, the fact that this boyfriend had cut Precious away from the person who took care of her one child did not make him own up to the responsibility. He was stingy and he cared less about the baby's welfare.
Even more, Precious's boyfriend always tried to take the little that she had from her. Sometimes, he would even involve the pastor just to get what he wants. At a point, the single mother became gainfully employed and stopped seeking for his attention all the time.
It was at this point that Precious's boyfriend decided to call the relationship quits based on the public's perception that she would eventually disgrace him in the society. Although this 41-year-old man did not tell Precious, he confided in the lady who is presently the source of this story.
As much as she tried to dissuade the man from ending his relationship with her friend, he did not agree. Just when it seemed all issues had been forgotten, this man came back again to Precious's friend saying he wanted to take his former girlfriend back and marry her.
Read the post below:
"Pls hide my identity. My friend met this guy 2 years ago who promised her marriage,she's 27yrs old and a single mother of one and the guy in question is 41yrs old and a single father of two. He asked my friend to stop any association with other men including her baby daddy which she did without questioning but if my friend asked him for help financially he'll tell her that he's broke. But once he sees anything my friend have that he fancy he most take it by force even involving our pastor. He doesn't help her with the baby school stuffs,there was a time she asked him for money to make her hair and he asked her to follow him to barbing salon and cut the hair.
"Finally my friend got a job and stop all the attention she gives him,on Monday this week the guy called me and said he's tired of my friend and wants to break up when I try to find out what the problem is he said that someone from our community called and and told him that if he marries Precious that she will bring disgrace to him and all sort of things that I cnt type here and he asked me not to tell her but I didn't keep the promised. To cut the long story short this same guy has been calling my friend since yesterday telling her how much he misses and want to marry her,am totally confused. Please is he testing her or what. Should my friend go on with him,pls no insult. Thanks."
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