Nigerian girls can attest to the fact that our Naija men can sometimes be a hassle to deal with when in a relationship. But have you often wondered why things have been going wrong in your relationship?
Often times, it is easy to blame the men for the loopholes that always seem to be cutting through relationships. Some ladies will say that Nigerian boyfriends are so lacking in certain virtues.
Others will insist if only Nigerian men would give their baes a little bit of attention, maybe things would have been better. Well, whatever the case may be, although dating a Nigerian dude comes with its challenge, this problems can be easily dispelled if they are well understood.
Sometimes, one comes to realise that it is the simplest things that please a Nigerian man and makes him come around. Check out five ways to build a healthy relationship with one of these men.
1. Love & Friendship
Love and friendship is the basis to all relationships. A relationship without these two things are dead. Try to build a friendship with your partner because once love fades, the friendship steers the boat.
2. Self Love
To have a healthy relationship with another human being, you must first learn to love yourself to be able to pass it on to another individual. Look inwards, that is the beginning of true happiness. If there is no self love then you can't love another.
3. Trust your man
There is no love without trust. Once the trust is broken, there is nothing else to build in that relationship. Despite the fact that there are some hawks just waiting to take men away, give them the benefit of the doubt.
4. Be Honest with him
Honesty is key in a relationship. Trust cannot be built without honesty. You need to learn to be honest with your man no matter how difficult the truth may seem. It is better he accepts all your baggage than to pretend.
5. Communicate with each other
This is by far one of the most important. Communication between two lovers has to be top notch for things to work. If you have a problem with him, speak up. Things are a lot easier when you communicate.
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